American girls , easy ?...the debate

[gregmack]

Originally Posted by hw711

Not every Aermican is against weed. It's just inappropriate discussion topic for the forum. This site is owned by Steve so he makes the rules. If you don't like it, you don't have to be here. Let's put it this way, if you smoke a lot, you are not going to be very happy with Cancun weed anyway so there is no point is buying it. End of discussion.

And stop being a douchebag and making immatures posts to provoke people. If we get more complaints about you, the ban hammer is most likely coming down.

Hey man, im not arguing the rules nor am I looking for attention.. like everyone I have a right to my opinion... all that I'm saying is WEED is mainstream.. not cocaine, no crack, no heroin, no meth... all those are just f-ked up, I would not touch any of those... but weed is equal to a cigarrette... so when people have questions... can't people just let them know its hard to find weed in Cancun (like u did) instead of jumping on people like im sleeping with their wife... the word weed is said.. everyone just shuns people... Micheal Phelps gets highs... I know all of Americans eat wheaties or have a Phelps posters in your room... but thanks for clearing it up for me... weed is hard to find in Cancun.. check I got it... so......... (drum roll)........... I guess I just gotta smuggle it in!!!!

[gregmack]

If your going to call me a social reject... atleast say im a stoned social reject!

[hw711]

Originally Posted by gregmack

Hey man, im not arguing the rules nor am I looking for attention.. like everyone I have a right to my opinion... all that I'm saying is WEED is mainstream.. not cocaine, no crack, no heroin, no meth... all those are just f-ked up, I would not touch any of those... but weed is equal to a cigarrette... so when people have questions... can't people just let them know its hard to find weed in Cancun (like u did) instead of jumping on people like im sleeping with their wife... the word weed is said.. everyone just shuns people... Micheal Phelps gets highs... I know all of Americans eat wheaties or have a Phelps posters in your room... but thanks for clearing it up for me... weed is hard to find in Cancun.. check I got it... so......... (drum roll)........... I guess I just gotta smuggle it in!!!!

I didn't say weed is hard to find. It's not, but whatever you get will mostly be crap. Again, its an inappropriate discussion top for the forum. I don't make the rules, I just enforce them. I wouldn't smuggle it either. Once they had a airport security with a dog waiting outside of the gate smelling everyone deplaning.

[tequilaaaaaa]

Originally Posted by Steve14

Haha Chad I thought the same thing.

I'm in agreement with ILikeRoastBeef on this one. You could line a group of random girls up and rate each of them from 1-10 based purely on looks, knowing nothing about them.

Those values are completely meaningless when you put them into their natural environments. There are plenty of girls who are 7s, but through social dynamics, they were popular/valued growing up, maybe personality and other considerations including their own self value, and they get treated like a 10. You'll have girls who are 10s who get treated like they are less for the same opposite reasons, maybe they weren't popular, maybe they behaved in a certain manner, aren't too smart, etc etc...

Geography is also important as you mentioned. The Idaho 9 is a New York 6. You could meet the exact same girl, one lives in a small town, and the other is a big city girl, lets say NYC. In NYC, money and status plays a huge role in dating. Nice lounges are hard to get into for guys, especially if you do not have money. I don't even blame a girl for being selective. You live in a city with wealthy, successful, good looking guys, if you have an asset, your looks, why wouldn't you cash it in? Why would you choose the deadbeat?

There have actually been studies on this. I read one where researchers showed numerous women pictures of men and had them rate the men on look. Some women got just the pictures, while some women saw job/salary information along with the pictures. There was a HUGE difference in attractiveness ratings based on job/salary information. 7s became 3s because they were garbagemen, and 5s became 9s because they were doctors.

There is a lot more to this that I don't have time to get into, race, demographics, etc etc...A lot of it is a matter of chance. There are plenty of "high school sweethearts", or guys who landed gorgeous chicks in high school and stayed with them. If the same guy met the same gorgeous girl several years later, without mutual friends and everything that came with the previous situation, the girl probably wouldn't give the guy the time of day.

So yea, looks are important in creating a base level of whether there will be an attraction, but social dynamics really decide whether something will happen or not.

I agree with this. Also, different girls will be easy for different reasons. Some are insecure and want the attention, some let their hair down on vacation as it usually won't affect their reputation back home, sometimes it's because all of their friends are hooking up with guys that night, some are just too drunk and make decisions they never would when sober...

Also the guy has a lot to do with it. A girl that's an 8 might be easy, but would never put out to lower than a 7. A prudey 5 might forgo her values if a 10 shows interest.

Tbh, it's not exact science. I've turned down guys who are solid 9s one night, but gone home with 5s the next and I'd consider myself an 8.

I think the guys that are most successful don't need to think about any of this at all though... It's all natural.

[hw711]

Originally Posted by Steve14

There have actually been studies on this. I read one where researchers showed numerous women pictures of men and had them rate the men on look. Some women got just the pictures, while some women saw job/salary information along with the pictures. There was a HUGE difference in attractiveness ratings based on job/salary information. 7s became 3s because they were garbagemen, and 5s became 9s because they were doctors.

Good thing you are a lawyer.

Note to self, bring a copy of my pay stub to Cancun this year to compensate for my lack of muscles.

[ILikeRoastBeef]

Originally Posted by hw711

Good thing you are a lawyer.

Note to self, bring a copy of my pay stub to Cancun this year to compensate for my lack of muscles.

I bring my paystub and muscles to compensate for my lack of size and girth... hooo hawww

[ChadD]

Originally Posted by ILikeRoastBeef

I bring my paystub and muscles to compensate for my lack of size and girth... hooo hawww

I bring awesome board shorts to compensate for all of the above.

[ToriB]

Not only are you a social reject, you are also misinfomed. The war is on drugs here, not just cocaine. Inform yourself and then maybe ppl will have a mature conversation with you. Not a single member is gonna take you seriously with you childish remarks.

[ILikeRoastBeef]

Chad, lol i always ask the hot chicks working in that department if they have any with the cellphone pocket in the front. For some reason they always look at me creepy

Remember the reebok pump basketball shoes... wow what a great concept to implement :P

[Steve14]

Hey Chad, nobody has gotten an hj in cargo shorts since 'Nam.

Tequilaaa, funny you mention that about shooting down a 9 one night and going home with a 5 the next. You can't explain these things. I can totally understand that, I've been in the situation where I've inexplicably not been interested in a hot girl, while I am drawn to a girl who is a 7 by normal standards. For me, it's all about being interesting, I find confident, outgoing and brazen girls alluring. There are so many moving parts to dating and meeting people that you shouldn't really ever take rejection personally. Of course, many of us internalize it anyway, it's sort of natural. But that just gets in the way. I also watched a show on Discovery on pheromones which was extremely interesting. There are subconscious factors involved in attraction that you can't even control!

Since the thread went off on a drug tangent, I'll throw in a relevant quote:

Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on.

[ChadD]

Originally Posted by ILikeRoastBeef

Chad, lol i always ask the hot chicks working in that department if they have any with the cellphone pocket in the front. For some reason they always look at me creepy

Remember the reebok pump basketball shoes... wow what a great concept to implement :P

I need to get a pair of those. That's genius.

[Andy uk]

Originally Posted by Ally

haha it's big here as well but you are right there is probably way more girls with bigger boobs in the states simply because there's way more people in general. lol.

i'll make it my mission to try and find out who's got the biggest boobs!! haha 21st march for 2 week, not long now

andy

[Hoozle]

Originally Posted by gregmack

you went to cancun with your bf??? why you going to bring a sandwich to a buffet?? like who does that.. go to barbados or something!!

More like bringing Filet Mignon and Lobster to a buffet, at least that's how I feel about him, and if you've seen the buffet at the Oasis it ain't nothing to brag about lol

And at least I will be guaranteed to get laid unlike you who will only probably get a girl that's into douchebags...

And weed... like who does that? Go to Holland or something!!

[Hoozle]

Originally Posted by Steve14

Haha Chad I thought the same thing.

I'm in agreement with ILikeRoastBeef on this one. You could line a group of random girls up and rate each of them from 1-10 based purely on looks, knowing nothing about them.

Those values are completely meaningless when you put them into their natural environments. There are plenty of girls who are 7s, but through social dynamics, they were popular/valued growing up, maybe personality and other considerations including their own self value, and they get treated like a 10. You'll have girls who are 10s who get treated like they are less for the same opposite reasons, maybe they weren't popular, maybe they behaved in a certain manner, aren't too smart, etc etc...

Geography is also important as you mentioned. The Idaho 9 is a New York 6. You could meet the exact same girl, one lives in a small town, and the other is a big city girl, lets say NYC. In NYC, money and status plays a huge role in dating. Nice lounges are hard to get into for guys, especially if you do not have money. I don't even blame a girl for being selective. You live in a city with wealthy, successful, good looking guys, if you have an asset, your looks, why wouldn't you cash it in? Why would you choose the deadbeat?

There have actually been studies on this. I read one where researchers showed numerous women pictures of men and had them rate the men on look. Some women got just the pictures, while some women saw job/salary information along with the pictures. There was a HUGE difference in attractiveness ratings based on job/salary information. 7s became 3s because they were garbagemen, and 5s became 9s because they were doctors.

There is a lot more to this that I don't have time to get into, race, demographics, etc etc...A lot of it is a matter of chance. There are plenty of "high school sweethearts", or guys who landed gorgeous chicks in high school and stayed with them. If the same guy met the same gorgeous girl several years later, without mutual friends and everything that came with the previous situation, the girl probably wouldn't give the guy the time of day.

So yea, looks are important in creating a base level of whether there will be an attraction, but social dynamics really decide whether something will happen or not.

So true, However for me it's more about personality. I've had lot's of "5's" but It's because I liked their personality. I've dated some "10's" and they may be successful as far as money and career but they might be total douchebags. If a guy has a good personality he's a 10 in my book despite looks and money. But if I meet two guys that have a good personality then, maybe I would pick the better looking or more successful one.

I once went on a date with a good looking med student and he told me he used 'his being in med school' as a way to pick up chicks. He said it worked for him 100% of the time. I never called him after that date though, I thought he was a douche with no personality. Now, he's texts me all the time and acts all insecure and upset as if he's never been rejected before. It's like he thinks because of his status that he's entitled to whatever he wants. Like a male princess syndrome or something aka douche lol

[CROYDONCANCUN]

It ain't about 5's or 10's.....it's about what happens there and then at that moment in time....American girls like accents, English girls will want something different and go for the American guys.....just take it as it comes no? The guy has to be just as easy in the situation....

[ATCO]

Haha can't believe somebody seriously asked that question.

Come on, how can you stereotype the entire gender of an entire country. Im sure some American girls are easy, as sure as I am that some girls from the UK are easy. But come on, seriously...

Obviously, the accent probably does help a little, because its sort of exotic speaking to somebody from a place thousends of miles away. That works both ways, Im sure an American, whether man or woman, going partying in the UK would get the same treatment. Unless its London, because its full of them

But that doesn't mean if you struggle to pull anybody at home in the UK, you can go to Cancun and suddenly turn into some Robert Pattersonesque love machine because you have an accent!