Thanks so much for the pic comments! About themes, check with folks on here going the same week as you guys. TTR has 2 'official' theme nights-white night and lingerie night. Other themes, like school girl, men's shirt night, etc are typically arranged by folks on this site coordinating that week for their group, and know that not everyone participates. By the way, just so you know, if you post comments to your own page, I don't get a notice to read it (I just got lucky this time spotting it when I returned to your page to thank you guys for your thoughtful pic comments) ... so if you want to communicate with folks, post a visitor or private msg on their page :-) Email TTR about passes, and availability-won't be cheap, plus they really don't encourage too much pass use from what I hear, unless you express interest in staying there. I think that's largely out of respect for guests staying there, e.g. not having a bunch of single guys crashing the place to party one night.