a easy way to let other guests know your morals at ttr

[mduval1]

Originally Posted by Dewey & Heidi

I appreciate everyone's comments on this topic...for us, it isn't really the "swingers" aspect of it, but the opportunity to not have to worry about what others might think....I have always loved going topless at other resorts in Playa del Carmen, and every once in a while, there would be children around and I would hope I didn't make others uncomfortable or other adults would have the booze flowing and they were having a good time and getting "frisky" and parents would complain or make comments because their children were around...so we chose an adults only, so that we wouldn't have that experience to have to deal with....We look forward to heading to temptations in Feb. going to enjoy meeting new people, good food, booze and lots of sun and having a great time....I just was a little confused on what I have been reading over the past few months...we really aren't swingers, probably more "voyeuristic" (sorry about the spelling!)...I am sure we will have a great time...

Dewey and Heidi, I know exactly what you mean- we have not been swingers before, but we do get frisky after a few drinks, and I love to flirt. I have had others get indignant at some of my teasing comments in "family resorts" (never anything rude or pushy, maybe just a little unexpected). Some people joke back with me, but I have had some people walk away, looking at me as if I was way out of line. I was hoping I would find a "less judgemental" crowd here. This will be our first visit- May 30th.

[lolnrich]

Originally Posted by mduval1

Dewey and Heidi, I know exactly what you mean- we have not been swingers before, but we do get frisky after a few drinks, and I love to flirt. I have had others get indignant at some of my teasing comments in "family resorts" (never anything rude or pushy, maybe just a little unexpected). Some people joke back with me, but I have had some people walk away, looking at me as if I was way out of line. I was hoping I would find a "less judgemental" crowd here. This will be our first visit- May 30th.

I couldn't agree more with your comments. After a few drinks the inuendos start to flow and the flirty behaviour begins, but some people we have met on previous holidays find it a bit too much and we are hoping that our first visit, a two week hol in January 2011 will mean that there will be like minded guys and girls who we can have a blast with.

[mike_reta]

Our first trip to TTR was May 2010. We were not too sure what to expect and did not know about this site. We met so many swingers, swayers and vanillas. We had the best vacation ever as a couple. We loved that there were no children and my top was off within the first hour of being there. We had one rude chick complain around 10 topless woman that we had no class to bare our chests. She shut up pretty quick when the husbands heard her and we wanted to ask her why she came to TTR. We didnt see her much for the rest of the week. If you do not want to see boobs, DONT go to TTR. We cant wait to go back next yr. We met so many wonderful people. It was great to chat about sexual topics and no one was offened. TY Jamie and other Cancuncare members for making my husband and I feel welcome. Hmmm Muff Diver Shirt.. yup we saw a lady wearing one while we were there..lol think we both need one..hehehe

[redz]

Yeah it's always fun reading the negative reviews from people who had no idea what temptation was, complaining about the wild behavior..... I`m always suprised some people do no research on where they are vacationing. I was most suprised by how much fun my wife had, I was a bit worried because she can be shy but that went out the window after a day or so and a few cocktails!

[loringeorge]

ok we are down for XXX sign us up! lol Got to find our "swinger" shirts and stuff....

[trevillyan]

I can't believe how long this thread has stayed alive, it has to be a record or something. I can't wait to see if anyone has signs in December.

[christiger]

sure we can keep it going all year long !!! Morals need to be left at the check in though...

[Jimxtc]

Originally Posted by christiger

sure we can keep it going all year long !!! Morals need to be left at the check in though...

Amen to that one!

[DEEREMAN]

Originally Posted by bern & steve

we could always get one made for you ...

i would like 2 of those shirts made for us also. Or the "i am with stupid" shirts with an arrow pointing. But replace stupid with swinger

[maddbomber]

i saw a shirt the other day...it just said "vaginatarian"....i might have to pick one of those up before we come

[Trooley Insane]

Vaginatarian!! That's a hoot. We'll take two (his and hers).

[vacationfun2]

I have a picture form a few years ago, then BBG, of a small swinger takeover. (I did not even know what a take over was but I was not blind) The lady is wearing the shirt described. She posed but I promised not to distribute it.

[~*Cancun Princess *~]

*I'm assuming I should leave my "nun" halloween costume at home ....* ... But actually it is a "naughty nun" costume ... ! Wonder what kind of comments *THAT* would yield!!! LMAO!!!!

[GCPSgirl]

[TNCJ1]

Okayyy what if you have played on the swing set in the past, like the thrill, challenge, and flirting of the game, but don't always wanna play, will play on the swing set again in the future, but the wife likes single girls and your always open for pretty much anything would that look something like this?
XxXFMFO?

[parkguy]

I have always found that hanging around having a few drinks together and a few clear moments of communication removes all doubt....It all starts with ,,,,"Hello,,having fun yet"....

[seriouslysillygirl54]

So if I put X's all around my wrist band??????

[DEEREMAN]

Originally Posted by seriouslysillygirl54

so if i put x's all around my wrist band??????

then there would be no doubt once soever

[gspumoni]

So its that simple..XXX on our wrist band and let the fun begin?

[us2933]

Originally Posted by gspumoni

So its that simple..XXX on our wrist band and let the fun begin?

It worked for us in May lol xxx

[Lenny]

and here i thought being an adult was going to be so boring...

[4biddenpleasrs]

Originally Posted by Lenny

and here i thought being an adult was going to be so boring...

ROTFLMAO. I had more fun at 30 than my entire 20s. *L*

[CNL]

This thread has been going for awhile so I thought I would keep the ball rolling.......I don't know how to upload pictures to these posts, but we have great t-shirts that tend to help out....His says, "If you want me you'll have to ask my wife"....and hers says "Plays well with others". We usually wear them the first day at TTR.

[us2933]

Originally Posted by CNL

This thread has been going for awhile so I thought I would keep the ball rolling.......I don't know how to upload pictures to these posts, but we have great t-shirts that tend to help out....His says, "If you want me you'll have to ask my wife"....and hers says "Plays well with others". We usually wear them the first day at TTR.

We wore 'swingers' t-shirts and 'international muff diving team captain' t-shirts which seemed to do the trick last May lol xxx

[mike and kathy]

so tell us are we waring tshirts, orange wristband or xxx

[Jeff&Cindy]

wow this post has kept going and going were going back cindy has a shirt that reads some will some wont some do some don't i might

[Brewster]

Hmmmmm, my hatband says "XXXXXXXXXX"...holy crap! lol

[maddbomber]

Originally Posted by mike and kathy

so tell us are we waring tshirts, orange wristband or xxx

we are goin with wristbands

[hortonklyn]

I don't have morals??? LOL

[Canadian Dos Equis fan]

Originally Posted by Brewster

Hmmmmm, my hatband says "XXXXXXXXXX"...holy crap! lol

You may want to wash the hat LOL