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Old 09-21-2010, 07:56 AM   #1
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Red face Newbie - Excited AND Nervous...anyone else?

These threads are a TRIP! I am going by myself and totally realize that I'll likely see no one else again except if I decide to come back. I love being nekkid (my daughter calls me a nudist!) but I have never been openly topless on a beach, let alone, worn a thong. I am a huge extrovert but am only into guys (kissing girls is fun, tho). I am excited about it all sooooo look forward to taking a step out of my "safe" zone...this is a send out to the next chapter in my life...happily single and carefree and into exploring whatever the hell I feel like I want to explore...why am I SO nervous???? Was anyone else experiencing this combination of anxiety, nerves, excitement and anticipation?
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You will not have any problem leaving your safe zone, if you wish. Every trip we take, anywhere, especially TTR, has some great experiences. Your safe zone can be expanded as far as you wish.

Have fun and explore a bit.
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Old 09-21-2010, 09:13 AM   #3
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When are you headed down there? We leave saturday for our virgin trip also. No need to be nervous. From what i have felt , you will fit in perfectly.
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Leaving saturday! Bet you can hardly get any work done this week, lol. Expecting hot pics on your return.
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Dear if you relax and be what you want to be and have the fun you want to have this will be the best vacation you have ever had. The first time we went the wife was a little nervous about going topless and now I think she is topless before she gets her towel layed out.You will meet so many great people that this will be your new vacation spot. We have been twice this year and looking to go back at the end of Nov. maybe we will see you there.
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These threads are a TRIP! I am going by myself and totally realize that I'll likely see no one else again except if I decide to come back. I love being nekkid (my daughter calls me a nudist!) but I have never been openly topless on a beach, let alone, worn a thong. I am a huge extrovert but am only into guys (kissing girls is fun, tho). I am excited about it all sooooo look forward to taking a step out of my "safe" zone...this is a send out to the next chapter in my life...happily single and carefree and into exploring whatever the hell I feel like I want to explore...why am I SO nervous???? Was anyone else experiencing this combination of anxiety, nerves, excitement and anticipation?
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I can relate to the roller coaster ride of emotions your feeling before going on an adventure as a single person. I've been single for the last ten years and feel the same as you do every time. All I know for sure is that I feel so alive when I'm feeling all those emotions and so good when I return . So keep that in mind and enjoy because we only go around once in life
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I can relate as well. I'm flying solo too. I'm both excited and nervous but I feel alive and this is a good thing...did it once before but was not at TTR. I'm thinking everybody is there to have a good time and in a good mood and on the same level. Relax, be yourself and it'll all be good!
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My wife and I are going there for our first time also and we are experiencing nervous anticipation as well. Sound's like a nice group of people go there repeatedly so think things will flow once you get settled in. Good luck and safe travels
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Old 10-18-2010, 06:18 PM   #9
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our first trip too and reading up on what to expect! cant wait
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Old 10-18-2010, 06:47 PM   #10
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When I went there were a few single people on the board and they were part of our party group the whole week - around the pool, booze cruise, club night...
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Old 10-18-2010, 08:16 PM   #11
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The only thing I'd be nervous about is not bring enough sunscreen or bikini bottoms!!
You are gonna have a blast!
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ah bless mamasita what a great post, dont worry you will be with friends, parkguy and zurc(jesse) will look after you until I get there LOL.. then the party really starts...
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You make me sound like your warm up act Sue, start off with a little soft shoe, tell some jokes, sing a couple of my hits from yesteryear...
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no way jesse you are the headliner... i just prepare the path ...mr temptation here we come lol
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I swear I grew up in the wrong era, lol. I should have been a 50's lounge act with a bad suit.
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These threads are a TRIP! I am going by myself and totally realize that I'll likely see no one else again except if I decide to come back. I love being nekkid (my daughter calls me a nudist!) but I have never been openly topless on a beach, let alone, worn a thong. I am a huge extrovert but am only into guys (kissing girls is fun, tho). I am excited about it all sooooo look forward to taking a step out of my "safe" zone...this is a send out to the next chapter in my life...happily single and carefree and into exploring whatever the hell I feel like I want to explore...why am I SO nervous???? Was anyone else experiencing this combination of anxiety, nerves, excitement and anticipation?
Totally hear you! Solo first trip here as well but this forum has eased my anxiety a bit as almost everyone posting on here sounds approachable and friendly.
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Totally hear you! Solo first trip here as well but this forum has eased my anxiety a bit as almost everyone posting on here sounds approachable and friendly.
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That's nice to hear. A lot of us make an effort to help out newcomers to the forum and Temptation and it rewarding to hear appreciation.

The people who go to Temptation truly are approachable and friendly. You'll have a blast!
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:02 PM   #18
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These threads are a TRIP! I am going by myself and totally realize that I'll likely see no one else again except if I decide to come back. I love being nekkid (my daughter calls me a nudist!) but I have never been openly topless on a beach, let alone, worn a thong. I am a huge extrovert but am only into guys (kissing girls is fun, tho). I am excited about it all sooooo look forward to taking a step out of my "safe" zone...this is a send out to the next chapter in my life...happily single and carefree and into exploring whatever the hell I feel like I want to explore...why am I SO nervous???? Was anyone else experiencing this combination of anxiety, nerves, excitement and anticipation?
Have not a worry in the world you'll have a great time..with some great people. There is a large group of us single folk going at the same time as you. When do you get in?
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Old 11-07-2010, 08:18 AM   #19
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Default Excited but not nervous !!!

We are 1st timers to Temptation's as well... We are both excited but not nervous.. From the sounds of it, it will be a vacation to remember, and alot of fun !!!
I am more nervous about the 6hr flight as I hate flying.
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Stay up late the night before, grab a couple of drinks at the airport bar and just sleep the flight through. I've always found them relaxing and sleep like a baby.
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nothing to worry about-we went last oct. and can't wait to go back!!
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Old 12-06-2010, 08:33 AM   #22
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I understand as I got a little nervous each time or maybe it was anticipation. Anyway, do whatever feels right to you. I did not take off my top the first two trips. I would maybe wear a thong but for some reason, the top stayed on but this last January was a different story. I was ready.

So enjoy your first trip because I doubt it will be you last!
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Old 12-06-2010, 09:52 AM   #23
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I understand as I got a little nervous each time or maybe it was anticipation. Anyway, do whatever feels right to you. I did not take off my top the first two trips. I would maybe wear a thong but for some reason, the top stayed on but this last January was a different story. I was ready.

So enjoy your first trip because I doubt it will be you last!

Well said! Do only what you are comfortable with. Participate as much or as little as you like, most importantly, Have a great time! And I would agree, plan on more trips in the future!
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:57 AM   #24
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Latest here is the guys are saying "up for anything" while the girls are talking quiet pool.
Let's see how fast THAT changes
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i'm jealous.. bet the geordies are rocking mexico, but you woud be better posting in temptation main forum,better response. have a great new year x
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I too am nervous as is my wife. But I am sure that after a few cold drinks and get to knows we can settle right in. Had no problems in Vegas, should be easier in Cancun.
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Had no problems in Vegas, should be easier in Cancun.
...............much easier in cancun i assure you

they dont have all the sunday school rules in cancun - like they do in vegas............hell - you cant even pop a titty out in vegas

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...............much easier in cancun i assure you

they dont have all the sunday school rules in cancun - like they do in vegas............hell - you cant even pop a titty out in vegas

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These threads are a TRIP! I am going by myself and totally realize that I'll likely see no one else again except if I decide to come back. I love being nekkid (my daughter calls me a nudist!) but I have never been openly topless on a beach, let alone, worn a thong. I am a huge extrovert but am only into guys (kissing girls is fun, tho). I am excited about it all sooooo look forward to taking a step out of my "safe" zone...this is a send out to the next chapter in my life...happily single and carefree and into exploring whatever the hell I feel like I want to explore...why am I SO nervous???? Was anyone else experiencing this combination of anxiety, nerves, excitement and anticipation?
Just go with how u feel at the time, whatever you're comfortable with. You might surprise youself
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My wife and I are going to be first timers in September. We're looking forward to trying the sensual couples massage and being a bit out of our comfort zone. Also looking to have just us time for our 15th anniversary.

Which reminds me - someone on some topic around here said something about not telling anyone there that it's your birthday or your anniversary - true?

Thanks all, my wife and I were really influenced by this board to go ahead and try Temptation for something new and (hopefully) exciting!

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