wife flirting

[zzz555]

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

[Michael F.]

To start you off, read through this thread a bit. Am sure you will be getting responses soon.
http://www.cancuncare.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=28791

BTW, how did you and your wife decide upon the BBG for your holiday?

[Thumper]

Originally Posted by zzz555

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

NO, everyone is there to have a good time. With that being said, there is always someone, no matter where you are who can ruin things.

Have fun, party your brains out, but don't throw away all common sense...

My wife was drunk from the time we arrived until the time we left, we had one minor incident and looking at it now, I am not sure I would not have been acting the same way if I was single...

If you have any problems whatsoever while down there, tell Chinos or Omar and they will take care of it real quick

Marty

[KuffandVix]

People flirt at BBG? :shock:
Nah, everyone's just having a great time, and so will you guys

[glenn/monique]

Originally Posted by KuffandVix

People flirt at BBG? :shock:
Nah, everyone's just having a great time, and so will you guys

Your wife is just having fun in her wicked weasels. She knows how to take care of unwanted advances. We all do.

[KuffandVix]

Originally Posted by glenn/monique

Your wife is just having fun in her wicked weasels. She knows how to take care of unwanted advances. We all do.

:whip: W :angel: W :whip:

[glenn/monique]

Originally Posted by KuffandVix

:whip: :angel: :whip:

That's what I was thinking. Whip them good. You got it girl!

[glenn/monique]

[quote="zzz555"]My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.[/quote

We'll be there April 19th-26th. come chat in April chat and get to know all of us.

[DavenRose]

I don't think you will find any more problems at BBG than you would anywhere else you may go. Most people that go to BBG are couples and just want to have fun and enjoy being on vacation. Of course there are singles there too and of course they would probably like to "hook up" if they can. But in every case I know about a simple"no" is good enough. Of course there is the ever present jerk, but if there is a problem I am sure security would take care of it swiftly.

Just go and have fun. I think you both will enjoy!!

[KuffandVix]

Let us all know when you're coming, we'll be down there 4/26-5/5 if that's when you are there, we'll have drinks!! .........errrr I mean stop and say hi....geez that didn't come out right :roll:

[gitzy]

I've been to the BBG twice in the last 2 years as a single and witnessed only a minor, minor incident that was solved immediately. While hanging out with a group of couples, a drunk, single guy kept hitting on the wife of a friend I met and all it took was telling him she and\or her husband wasn't comfortable with what he was saying. He seemed pretty cool about it and just left.

There will usually be 1 idiot we will all see on a vacation to Mexico, but at the BBG, the vacationers seem to look after one another. If you'll be down there during April 18-25, look for the guy with the raggedy, faded Cubs hat, usually hanging out with couples and trying to flirt only with single women.

[Naoautorizada]

Originally Posted by deeka

She's fit, if she's standing by herself it's probably likely that someone will try thier luck. I'm sure it happens in any bar/club she goes to.

It's up to her to tell them straight, and you to accept that if you've got a beautiful wife, she's going to get attention. Take it as a complement.

[ffto]

Don't worry, be Happy
I think we all flirt to some extent and it is ok. It kind of keeps us young at heart. I don't recall any times that I have seen a problem in the 4 years at BBG. My wife will tell me at times that someone is looking at her and she thinks he wants her and we laugh about it. Never really had any problems as she knows how to say NO!
I do flirt a little and make fun of it and my wife knows it is all in fun. We have a good relationship and enjoy our precious time away from the everyday lifestyle.
Enjoy and Memories are very short at BBG. Usually they are gone overnight.


Don

[B & B]

Originally Posted by zzz555

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

If this is a serious post, then the BBG is probably not for you.

Your wife gets flirty but knows her limits right?? What is the problem, once she says NO!!then no one will carry it on, but if you are concerned about this at the BBG, then this must be an issue at home, correct?

Nobody can take advantage of someone that doesn't allow themselves to be taken advantage of...irregardless of the amount of alcohol consumption.

It always take two to tango, and anything else is RAPE...

I think you are just looking for a response... this has got to be a wind-up right??

[RonaldNTalina]

Originally Posted by B & B

If this is a serious post, then the BBG is probably not for you.

Your wife gets flirty but knows her limits right?? What is the problem, once she says NO!!then no one will carry it on, but if you are concerned about this at the BBG, then this must be an issue at home, correct?

Nobody can take advantage of someone that doesn't allow themselves to be taken advantage of...irregardless of the amount of alcohol consumption.

It always take two to tango, and anything else is RAPE...

I think you are just looking for a response... this has got to be a wind-up right??

I couldn't agree with you more. Aren't we done with this topic? We just talked about it two weeks ago. Girls, just say NO and mean it! Enough said.

Talina

[suedave]

go to the april roll call and add your dates, then chat on april chat in bbg lounge free for all, you will get to know the people you are going with a little better, this april will be our 3rd trip, and yes ther is a little flirting, just like anywhere else, but its all good clean fun, and there is so many couples going, who you could talk to on here, who always look out for each other, just in case there are any ar**eoles around, look forward to chatting to you.

[glenn/monique]

I agree with Dave, come talk to us in April Chat. We all need babysitters, some of us more than others (according to my husband) but, if your coming when all of us are then there is safety in numbers and in my case a whole load of babysitters. It's all good clean fun, and although I have been hit on many times at BBG(usually by the female population), I also know how to take care of my own. it's just never been an issue. I think your wife also knows how to handle her own. i think we all learn that in grade 6. I hate to say this but, women deal with this on a daily basis and being at BBG is not any different. Go, have fun, and let the wife handle what needs to be handled.

[xoie's omah]

Whenever a guy hits on me I just grab his hand and pull him over to introduce to my hubby. Either we get a new person to hang out with or he makes a quick exit.

[Venom]

Originally Posted by zzz555

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

This post is a bit odd.

guess this guy doesnt plan on spending a whole lot of time with his wife if he's worried about ppl taking advantage of her. I mean.....if he's gonna be hanging with her the whole time, why would he be worried about guys going up to her???

weird!

[Venom]

Originally Posted by zzz555

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

Maybe he's asking cause he wants that to happen??? :lol:

[RonaldNTalina]

Originally Posted by Venom

This post is a bit odd.

guess this guy doesnt plan on spending a whole lot of time with his wife if he's worried about ppl taking advantage of her. I mean.....if he's gonna be hanging with her the whole time, why would he be worried about guys going up to her???

weird!

That is exactly what I told Ron. When we are at BBG there is hardly time for anyone to hit on me since I am generally standing right next to him

[PA Mike]

I just came back on Tuesday and there were many single men and women there the group of us that hung out both couples and singles had no real problems. You know who is married and which ones are single. I would not worry to much about it but i am sure that there might be an obnoxious drunk but like everyone else told just tell any of the staff and they will take care of it.

[k4110]

This is not an issue. :?:

[CUTMAN]

Originally Posted by zzz555

My wife and I are coming down in april . When she gets to drinking see tends to get a little flirty. Is there alot of people that are going to try and take advatage of her.

I can tell you this from our experience. We had a large group of people at the swim up bar for 4 straight days. On the day before we were leaving a single guy joined the group. He was really cool, we talked boxing, he was from Philli. He was cool. After a couple dozen drinks for each of us, my wife pulls me aside and said that Philli keeps brushing up against her in such a way that she felt uncomfortable. He did actually touch her...you know what I mean...his left shoulder area kinda brushed by her breast kinda thing and it happened maybe twice. I told her to stay clear of him and I would watch him. Then he did it again, she was on one side of a large group, he was on the other, and made his way over to her, again nonchelantly brushing by her. Just so happens that one of the single girls in our group overheard us talking and she noticed it and she got to him before I could and told him he was making the ladies uncomfortable and he was extremely humble, apolized up and down, end of story. It never happened again. I did later speak with him and told him I had been watching what he was doing and I didnt appreciate the purposefull advance...he said he was sorry many many times and we let it go at that. I was 1. pissed he did it and 2. flattered...I was angry because my wife was in that BBG euphoria and he almost changed that mood...LOL

[CUTMAN]

Originally Posted by RonaldNTalina

That is exactly what I told Ron. When we are at BBG there is hardly time for anyone to hit on me since I am generally standing right next to him

I know you were and I was ticked about that :P :P ops:

[CUTMAN]

Originally Posted by xoie's omah

Whenever a guy hits on me I just grab his hand and pull him over to introduce to my hubby. Either we get a new person to hang out with or he makes a quick exit.

good call!

[RonaldNTalina]

Originally Posted by CUTMAN

I know you were and I was ticked about that :P :P ops:

Too funny Rod. How the heck are you guys doing anyway? Too bad we didn't get to hang out more last year we will have to try for next year I guess. Tell Stacey Hi for me.

Talina

[CUTMAN]

Originally Posted by RonaldNTalina

Too funny Rod. How the heck are you guys doing anyway? Too bad we didn't get to hang out more last year we will have to try for next year I guess. Tell Stacey Hi for me.

Talina

That was funny wasnt it. Stacey is doing great. Finally found work...we made it all these months on my OT. She actually starts making money Monday. I am booking Sept 20-25 in a couple weeks. I am already excited to get back there...especially when I overheard a witch up here in michigan say "It's colder than my tit" in Michigan...lol....How are the wedding plans or are you guys married already...?

[RonaldNTalina]

Originally Posted by CUTMAN

That was funny wasnt it. Stacey is doing great. Finally found work...we made it all these months on my OT. She actually starts making money Monday. I am booking Sept 20-25 in a couple weeks. I am already excited to get back there...especially when I overheard a witch up here in michigan say "It's colder than my tit" in Michigan...lol....How are the wedding plans or are you guys married already...?

Not married yet. We're getting married April 9th in Vegas baby! Then on to BBG on June 20-30 for our honeymoon. I can't wait!

Talina

[soonn]

I am new at GGB Lounge (Forum), and love to hear how every member is doing and all.

Just wondering what are the bottons "PM" and "EMAIL" at the bottom for?

Originally Posted by RonaldNTalina