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Old 03-25-2011, 03:51 PM   #1
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I booked Temptation because it is adults only and looks like a lot of fun. I am going with my childhood friend and I asked her if she minded women going topless and some risque fun games before I booked it. After reading these forums, I am afraid she is going to freak out about the "balcony activities" and "pool activities". It won't bother me at all. I wouldn't call her a prude but maybe not open to seeing people having sex out in the open. But she is very outgoing and talkative and loves meeting people.

Anyone going April 9th to the 16th that might help me distract her from these activities going on? LOL Would she notice if she wasn't looking for it? I was interested in the Boob cruise but I think that would be out of the question.
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I booked Temptation because it is adults only and looks like a lot of fun. I am going with my childhood friend and I asked her if she minded women going topless and some risque fun games before I booked it. After reading these forums, I am afraid she is going to freak out about the "balcony activities" and "pool activities". It won't bother me at all. I wouldn't call her a prude but maybe not open to seeing people having sex out in the open. But she is very outgoing and talkative and loves meeting people.

Anyone going April 9th to the 16th that might help me distract her from these activities going on? LOL Would she notice if she wasn't looking for it? I was interested in the Boob cruise but I think that would be out of the question.
well you are going at a great time.. read up on all the April threads.. there is a huge group going .. lots of repeater..

there is a quiet pool if you dont want to be at the sexy pool and the beach and there is a possibility that she may see some balcony activity but we have been there 4 or 5 times now and have only seen that once..

you never know .. she might have the time of her life and will be draging you to the sexypool and hopefully she sees it all taken very lightly .. you have to at least make sure she sees it .. its all in fun.. and no one pressures you to take your top off.. there are some repeates that still dont take their tops off.. so I wouldnt worry.. you cant control every little thing that happens.. if she loves to meet different people from all over the world likes to have a few.. (dozen) drinks and is not judgemental she will be fine..

good Luck.. come and say hello to us.. when you see us ..


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Old 03-25-2011, 04:21 PM   #3
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Thanks Partydollgirl!

That makes me feel better that you only saw it once. I don't want to be at the quiet pool! I want to have fun! Hopefully she is cool with it. Nothing I can do now but send her off on her own to the quiet pool. LOL

We will definitely come by and say hi.
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Thanks Partydollgirl!

That makes me feel better that you only saw it once. I don't want to be at the quiet pool! I want to have fun! Hopefully she is cool with it. Nothing I can do now but send her off on her own to the quiet pool. LOL

We will definitely come by and say hi.
there are a few theme nights planned for the week you are there..

you dont have to particiapte although they are alot of fun.. but come hang out with the crew..

see you there!..

there is also a pdf file that Woody keeps if you would like to be on that and recieve it .. its pictures and dates of everyone from ccc that will be there in the month of April .. well not sure if its everyone but there lots..
you just have to email woody (thewoodman) a picture of you and your dates.. he will sent it back to you with the updated file .. if my hubby ever gets it done for him.. hint hint Brewster!!!
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You know that when she comes out of the closet by the second day you might be freaking her out too!!
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dont worry, we have been several times and only saw one balcony show (and we were inside the room, box seats :-) and THINK we have seen people having sex in the pool, but werent 100% sure .

so, while Im sure it does happen its not an in your face thing. kinda have to look for it.
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there are a few theme nights planned for the week you are there..

you dont have to particiapte although they are alot of fun.. but come hang out with the crew..

see you there!..

there is also a pdf file that Woody keeps if you would like to be on that and recieve it .. its pictures and dates of everyone from ccc that will be there in the month of April .. well not sure if its everyone but there lots..
you just have to email woody (thewoodman) a picture of you and your dates.. he will sent it back to you with the updated file .. if my hubby ever gets it done for him.. hint hint Brewster!!!
I will do that even though I am sure my friend will have met everyone by the end of the week! I am the shy one except of course when I have had some drinks... so I guess I won't be shy all week. See you there!
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You guys will have an awesome time, there is so much going on and so many people to meet. Better be careful though, Temptations has changed alot of people, you might be suprised at what happens. Just have fun with it.
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You know that when she comes out of the closet by the second day you might be freaking her out too!!
I hope so!!
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dont worry, we have been several times and only saw one balcony show (and we were inside the room, box seats :-) and THINK we have seen people having sex in the pool, but werent 100% sure .

so, while Im sure it does happen its not an in your face thing. kinda have to look for it.
That makes me feel much better! I will put blinders on her just in case!!
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You guys will have an awesome time, there is so much going on and so many people to meet. Better be careful though, Temptations has changed alot of people, you might be suprised at what happens. Just have fun with it.
Maybe we can make her a changed person by the time she goes home.
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Someday i willl stay at TTR u guys rocks !!!! i am repeater of cancun stayed at 4 different resorts and this april 13 to 17th will be my 6th time going to cancun so be any chance can we stop and say hey to u guys ?! so anyay let me know !! i am trying to figure how to put a pic of me on my profile !!!
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t and i were scared to death our first trip and did not know what to expect. were very guarded and distant from all as we were not sure what was going to happen

we learned that you can participate in whatever you like or you can just be an innocent bystander like we were our first trip and nobody will bother you or offend you

it really is a unique place where people dont judge too much

the old line from chinos "nobody knows you and nobody give a shit" is a great mindset to have going in

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My wife is normally kind of quiet and reserved. She had a blast and loved the activities at the sexy pool. Just relax and go with it.
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The best part of our first trip was having no idea what to expect. We booked almost last minute and got a great deal and so glad we did. Can't wait for May 1 we will be there again.
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My wife is normally kind of quiet and reserved. She had a blast and loved the activities at the sexy pool. Just relax and go with it.
Awsome! This is exactly what we are walking into! My wife is pretty reserved, but she is heading to TTR with a "whatever happens, happens" attitude! Totally looking forward to it! Thanks guys!
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Summer, Friend: You are thinking way too much. We promise....It is VERY unlikely you will see a balcony show, or sex in the pool. What you will see is a bunch of relaxed, easygoing, funny adults mingling about. Some (not all!!) will be topless. This place is not nearly the sex-crazy place some make it to be. Our prediction is the 2 of you will have a ball. Get a drink, then go up to a group and say' "Hi! Myname is ----and I am from-----" The only way you can screw up this trip is by "spectating", which is to say lying on a lounger for 4 days and never meeting anyone. Go get 'em!!!
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you will be fine. you will not be shocked, most of it you have to look hard to see some of the action. just go with the flow & you guys will have a blast.
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Thanks everyone. I feel much better! Can't wait for vacation!
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There is NO sex out in the open, and there are signs posted that you will be EJECTED from the resort if such occurs. The games at the pool are adult oriented and yes you will see BOOBS but nothing more! Lots of fun!
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I know your friend will be fine...Shy at first but you and her will be in a group of some great people!! They will make her feel welcome and comfortable!
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there is a famous sentence THAT I LOVE TO SAY !!!

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I booked Temptation because it is adults only and looks like a lot of fun. I am going with my childhood friend and I asked her if she minded women going topless and some risque fun games before I booked it. After reading these forums, I am afraid she is going to freak out about the "balcony activities" and "pool activities". It won't bother me at all. I wouldn't call her a prude but maybe not open to seeing people having sex out in the open. But she is very outgoing and talkative and loves meeting people.

Anyone going April 9th to the 16th that might help me distract her from these activities going on? LOL Would she notice if she wasn't looking for it? I was interested in the Boob cruise but I think that would be out of the question.
The balcony and pool activities are nothing to worry about. Been there 4 times and never seen any sex out in the open, just lots of people having a lot of fun.
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Summer 4 ever Jimbo is right . You have nothing to worry about. We will be there from the 8th thru the 15th and would be more then happy to have drinks with ya and have fun playing vball and other stuff. Its a blast and took some of our friends a few years back and they sound like you friend. After a while i bet you see her with her top off just like the rest. Lots of drinks do that some how. LOL
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You guys will have an awesome time, there is so much going on and so many people to meet. Better be careful though, Temptations has changed alot of people, you might be suprised at what happens. Just have fun with it.
I wish I found this thread before I booked my trip ... I am booked at the Golden Parnassus in May ... it's another adults only, but I think less of a party crowd and def less nudity! I will def keep temptations in mind for our next trip
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I wish I found this thread before I booked my trip ... I am booked at the Golden Parnassus in May ... it's another adults only, but I think less of a party crowd and def less nudity! I will def keep temptations in mind for our next trip
Once you've gone to Temptations you do get hooked.
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Summer, Friend: You are thinking way too much. We promise....It is VERY unlikely you will see a balcony show, or sex in the pool. What you will see is a bunch of relaxed, easygoing, funny adults mingling about. Some (not all!!) will be topless. This place is not nearly the sex-crazy place some make it to be. Our prediction is the 2 of you will have a ball. Get a drink, then go up to a group and say' "Hi! Myname is ----and I am from-----" The only way you can screw up this trip is by "spectating", which is to say lying on a lounger for 4 days and never meeting anyone. Go get 'em!!!
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I booked Temptation because it is adults only and looks like a lot of fun. I am going with my childhood friend and I asked her if she minded women going topless and some risque fun games before I booked it. After reading these forums, I am afraid she is going to freak out about the "balcony activities" and "pool activities". It won't bother me at all. I wouldn't call her a prude but maybe not open to seeing people having sex out in the open. But she is very outgoing and talkative and loves meeting people.

Anyone going April 9th to the 16th that might help me distract her from these activities going on? LOL Would she notice if she wasn't looking for it? I was interested in the Boob cruise but I think that would be out of the question.
as was said up there, You will have no problems... ive actually looked for balcony shows and im starting to think theres a signal to let every one know im there and no one does anything.. Its sounds a lot worse then it actually is, by day 2 you wont even notice weird things going on, besides some body shots or the occasionally man in the bannana hammock..ugh.. lol. Either way I will be there from April 10th to the 19th, if she needs an outlet from the craziness, I will be bringing search a word, checkers, name that tune (mexican version) and Jenga.... Ill be happy to look after her for you and be sure she is not exposed to Temptation madness LOL... You guys will be fine and have a blast, a ton of our crazy group will be there, about 100 people from this website so far.
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Wow backs your bringing Jenga... how cool is that, can't wait.LOL
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