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02-19-2007, 09:03 AM
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| Cancuncare Newbie Join Date: 17th Feb 2007
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|  Swaying at BBG March 22 - 29 We are a Mid-40's couple that will be swaying at BBG. Hopefully there will be others swaying there at that time. |
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02-19-2007, 09:08 AM
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| Cancuncare Guru Join Date: 27th Mar 2003 Location: Wisconsin
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02-19-2007, 11:07 AM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 18th Aug 2006 Location: Arroyo Grande, CA
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| You should look into going to Desires. I'm sure this stuff goes on at BBG but I've never seen it that I know of. Talina |
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02-19-2007, 05:03 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 3rd Feb 2007 Location: Houston,TX
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| I guess theres nothing like sending out a flyer on this subject. Gota love freedom of speech, To each his own I guess. Good luck with your idea. No Pic? Just hangin aroun in H town.Come on JUNE 6
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02-19-2007, 05:30 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 18th Aug 2006 Location: Arroyo Grande, CA
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02-19-2007, 07:37 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 10th Jun 2004 Location: Essex, UK
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02-19-2007, 08:33 PM
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| Cancuncare Regular  Join Date: 22nd Jan 2007 Location: winnipeg mb
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| being a single guy i don't have any experience with this,but i do know that last year desire was closed and the swingers ended up @BBG. I was asked if i wanted to go to desire and told them i was by myself and no partner.you need to be a couple or single lady.to go to desire,you should look into Desire,I will be at BBG march6-20 also. you might have success at BBG, and hope to see you there.  |
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02-19-2007, 08:48 PM
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| I can choose my own title  Join Date: 11th Mar 2003 Location: Denver, CO
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02-19-2007, 09:09 PM
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| Cancuncare Guru  Join Date: 10th Feb 2006 Location: Big Sky Country, Montana!!!
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| Oh,....duh.... those swingers Jamie.......sheesh, I was wondering what the hell they were talking about.......I got pics :lol:
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02-19-2007, 09:20 PM
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| Cancuncare Addict  Join Date: 4th Apr 2003 Location: Vegas Baby!
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| btw, this is a duplicate of a post made on the 18th... |
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02-20-2007, 09:54 AM
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| I can choose my own title  Join Date: 19th Feb 2006 Location: Edmonton, canada
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| Here's the problem with this ad you put out. Everyone on here whose been on for a while has a picture up. Noone is going to say yes thats me, I'll do it with their pic beside their words. The reply you get back will probably pictureless too.Too scary. Nothing like trying to find you pictureless friends for a night of swinging. Might just pass each other in the wind I think.
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02-20-2007, 11:52 AM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 18th Aug 2006 Location: Arroyo Grande, CA
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02-20-2007, 12:13 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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02-20-2007, 01:09 PM
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| Owner and Administrator  Join Date: 14th Feb 2003 Location: Cancun, Mexico
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| I think this is a genuine enquiry, albeit a little unaware of how we operate here I dont think there was any malice intended. |
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02-20-2007, 01:35 PM
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| CC's SB Godfather  Join Date: 15th Mar 2006 Location: connecticut, usa
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02-20-2007, 01:56 PM
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| Cancuncare Guru  Join Date: 16th Jan 2006 Location: The Hub of the Niagara Pennisula, Ontario
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However, I do understand the sensitivity. Sometimes there is rumours and innuendo that the BBG is a swinger's resort. Unenlightened friends at home on ocassion beleive that since it is adults only and topless friendly it must mean swinging. In fact, just today I talked to a friend that just returned fronm the Mayan who when I reconfirmed that we are going to the BBG insisted that the BBG is a swinger's place and in fact he was told that on the bus ride back to the airport on Sunday. We always send friends to this site, you can find out all the information you need, it is very informative and tons of times the swinging question is asked where the standard reply is "It is not in your face, perhaps it happens, but there is probably just as many swingers at the BBG as there is at Walmart or even -gasp- McDonald's." The hypersensitivity comes when people try to defend the resort and then as they direct people here they see the questions, they see invitations to swing and if you read deep enough you see the double entendre's and snicker snicker, read between the lines posts. I am sure it happens here, maybe even more so as the booze, the adults only, the topless friendliness, the games, and the sexual innuendo as well as the consumption of alcolhol and the let down of inhibitions perhaps leads to it. However, it is not blatant or in your face and I beleive if it does happen it is done discretley and definitely behind closed doors. Just my thoughts...
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02-20-2007, 01:56 PM
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| Cancuncare Newbie Join Date: 17th Feb 2007
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02-20-2007, 02:04 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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Well...I wasnt there with my lovely wife....("girls trip honey")But I heard rumors of some "adult activities" going on there. Just rumors mind you. :-o Nothing wrong with being "discreet" Diane 
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02-20-2007, 02:16 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 11th Mar 2003 Location: Denver, CO
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Not to worry, full understand your point and position. My comments about the "swingers" around Diego's Bar, (aka the actual swings there) was an attempt to lighten up the comments being made. Some of the folks we hang with at BBG are in fact Swingers but we like them anyway. As has been said several times over the years here on this Board, people's choices are just that, people's choices and who is anybody to judge anyone because they don't do the same thing? And I also understand the other's comments about wanting to make sure that everyone doesn't assume that because BBG is Adult Only that everyone is a Swinger there. Tough balance but it is attainable. I mean just because some Swingers go to BBG does not mean it's a Swinger hotel. If that was true every resort in the world would be a Swinger resort because Swingers go everywhere, as well they should. So enjoy BBG, you will find others that will contact you. And those that don't move in those same sircles can ehjoy themselves too because we all understand that Swingers are not like a cult and will not try to convert the unwilling to join the "dark side". BBG is for everyone. :wink: Jamie | |
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02-20-2007, 02:17 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: GTA, Ontario Canada
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| Last year we spent a week at desire and a week at BBG. There is a big difference, however, there is some fun loving couples that want to interact with each other at BBG, also. We found that it involved more teasing and voyeuristic adventures than swinging. It is done descretely and there is more likely to be a party in someones room with some nudity and innocent fun. We are not swingers ourselves but enjoy the freedom of being naked around others. BBG is a place for adults to have fun and couples will find groups they are comfortable around quickly. I hope this year we find people like last year. It sounds like management has clamped down on the sexual activities. We enjoyed late nights on our balcony "naked" and sometimes with others. I guess we will have to keep the lights down low so we don't offend anyone, and hope we don't get into trouble. Hope you find others to enjoy yourselves with. Good Luck! |
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02-20-2007, 02:45 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 19th Feb 2006 Location: Edmonton, canada
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| Diane, I hope you find what you want but, at the same time please respect non swingers bounderies. In the past I have had those lines completely crossed with unwanted touching and grabbing of private parts. We are all sick of defending BBG as being a swingers resort to friends and family. I love BBG. I love to be topless in a thong. I even enjoy the freedom of even being naked from time to time. I personally have been approached by swingers every trip I have been there. Yes, it goes on, it's there, it's quiet unless they think you might go then it's very forward. Tell me is there some special code that I should know about or avoid? I'm always wondering why I get approached?
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02-20-2007, 02:55 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 11th Mar 2003 Location: Denver, CO
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| Monique, From your description I would say that you are being hit on by more of the Swinger-wanna-be crowd than the Swinger crowd. Big difference. The SWB folks are those that have never seen anthing like BBG before and lose their minds, so fo speak. Swingers know to take no for an answer and never try to go where they are unwanted. SWBs want sex tonight and have had just enough booxe to get up the never to ask and don't want to take no for an answer. I've seen a lot of the SWBs at BBG from time to time and personall try to interject myself between them and the victim till the break is made. Being sexy as you are, unfortunately your are always going to attract the SWBs. But don't let that change you or interfear with your vacation and having fun. Hopefully there are enough folks around like me that will assist when necessary. Jamie |
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02-20-2007, 02:57 PM
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| Cancuncare Guru Join Date: 6th Sep 2006 Location: NE Wisconsin
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We have never hid that BBG is adult only and topless to our friends. We have been asked if it is like hedo and I ask them if they can even imagine my hubby letting that loose?! Monique maybe you are getting approached because you are there having a kicka@@ rocking time and that attracts people. IMHO have fun, say your not interested and rock on.
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02-20-2007, 03:55 PM
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| I can choose my own title Join Date: 19th Feb 2006 Location: Edmonton, canada
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I have met some people that told me they were swingers and that alone didn't stop me from talking to them, they were very nice, and then I have met people who I thought were on the up and up, they told me they were swingers, asked if I wanted to and I said no and then I was groped by them. These weren't swinger wanna bes. They told us of different occassion and experiences and they have enjoyed the lifestyle for 9 years. I'm not saying that all swingers are like this at all, most are very decent people who just enjoy a different sex life. To each his own but, I choose my own with my husband. As to do I attract people to the good time I am having. I'd say Yes, I do have a rocking good time, I am very out going, and I am usually the one who gets the party going, keeps the shots coming, and enjoys life. There's know doubt that people are attracted to someone who has an awsome time doing just about anything. When at BBG, I'll be the one dancing whether or not I have a partner, partying, drinking, play volleyball, playinng water polo, doing aerobics, playing the games, and Yes, I have an awsome time. I am a personal fitness trainer. My energy, and my party are both non stop. Can't wait to do it all again in less than 2 months. No approaches ever stop my party.
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02-20-2007, 04:22 PM
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| Cancuncare Newbie Join Date: 17th Feb 2007
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| wow I realize that BBG is not billed as a swingers resort. I understand its not hedo or desires. Which we have been to both. I didn't make my first posting to brag we are swingers, I didn't post pic's as we are very discreet, We like to let loose and have fun, And our whole lives aren't based on swinging, we have many non swinging friends. We just thought this would be a fun place to go. And if there happened to be a swinging couple or bifemale there, great ,and if not thats great to. By maybe meeting a couple on here, we wouldn't have to take a chance of offending anyone there. If your not a swinger you didn't even have to reply. Instead we heard replys like their bullshiting everyone and they didn't post there pic, think about it ,why would we if we are being discreet, if we chatted with a couple that we thought we might click with we would send them a pic, that would be better than people pointing at you there saying there swingers, One thing I do have to say is we have never cheated on each other without our partner there. Can some of you non swingers say that. After some of the replys we have had Im not sure if some of the people on here are people that we care to spend the week with partying. Diane thank you to some of you for sticking up for us |
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02-20-2007, 06:45 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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We have been around swingers before....NEVER have we been touched by anyone whom we didnt want touching us..... Singles???............different story
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02-20-2007, 09:20 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: GTA, Ontario Canada
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| Too bad you couldn't change your date to April 26th - May 6th.We would be happy to party with you! And we are not swingers or SWB's. Just enjoying life!!!! |
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02-20-2007, 09:24 PM
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| Cancuncare Enthusiast Join Date: 10th Feb 2007 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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We just dont think we'll get there till november or maybe even feb '08
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02-20-2007, 10:58 PM
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| Cancuncare Newbie Join Date: 26th Jan 2007
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| Just warning you----------I am a long winded SOB This really only applies to a few. Not into naming names, but you know who you are. We are new to the board and about to be first timers at BBG and we want to say------We are not swingers, but we enjoy hanging with Swingers. They are fun and do not have panties wadded up their arses. We hate drama and enjoy the security they have in themselves and relationships they are in which in turn transfers to ours because we have no worries about their rules. Most do not break their rules. We would like to ask a question without being kicked in the ribs by most everyone who considers themselves a protector of the world famous BBG? Better yet----kick away we do not care. Here is the question------What happened to your motto......"No one knows you and no one gives a shit"? You people seem to be fighting an issue that does not need to be fought here. BBG is not a swingers resort in anyway shape or form. BBG is an adult resort that caters to open minded and fun loving people. Am I Right or Wrong? Only closed minds cannot read or will not care and who wants them around anyway!!!! We have never been there before but this is my impression after reading many, many post on here. Believe me though I have been mislead by more than one post and the subject line it started with. Shame on you BBG Regulars! Think about those that do not read the entire post all the way through and the impression they must get about good old BBG. This is your fault again for misleading them. Think about what you preach on here. The Swinger resort is down the road a long-----long-----ways!!!!!! This has been established in many posts but you keep fighting for and about it. You will never change the minds of those that believe this unless you get them there to visit!!!!!!!!! You need to stop all the drama when someone ask a question. Again the motto is “No one knows you and No one cares”. If you make an issue---all the others that have no right to make an issue will as well. Ever been teased by someone who found out what you weakness was? They keep hitting the weakness because that is what pisses you off. Believe it or not Swingers will continue to visit BBG just for the fun atmosphere you all provide by your laid back open sexual attitude. That does not mean sex is out and open just the relaxed atmosphere that most of us desire surrounding sex. Who does not like flirting and feeling sexy? I am only saying, just so long as it does not go any farther than that. If it does handle it like adults! Or run and tell security. I prefer the adult method, I can handle it myself. We both like looking at boobs and huge thanks go out to the people that can and will allow such a wonderful thing to take place. There I said it. Let’s all be honest----why else do you come to BBG? Is it the food, water, or fun loving topless ladies and their spouses and/or other couples that love to gawk (out the corner of you eye that is) as well? Even if you do not know it, you all live very close to swingers in your community, neighborhoods and you may even unknowingly know a few personally. Most are not what you have the impression they are, just like BBG is not what the rest of the world may or may not think it is. Why worry about what the rest of the world thinks on this BBG Swingers issue. Anyone that wants to come to BBG will come. Those that do not will stay away. Anyone who thinks this place is dirty and sleazy will not come but they will move down the beach into the stuffy, yuppie hotel where no fun takes place. BBG, BBG Regulars and BBG Want to Be First Timers or Want To Be Regulars will continue to come with or without your welcome and you will not know they are swingers unless they want you to know. Why pretend they are not there any longer? They are everywhere!!!!! If you see something they are doing wrong or that offends you--- like you all say!!!! just tell Chino or get security------ Swingers bring an open mind that is a pleasure to be around. They are not wanna be players that hide behind "I hope I did not offend you" when they do or say something stupid. They ask questions so they know where everyone else stands, all this so no drama (hopefully) will take place. A few do not do this but most practice and desire no drama attitudes unlike the many other normal people we all deal with on a daily basis. Drama is the backbone for many! May we ask another question?----Are you all seriously surprised that the world thinks BBG is a swingers resort? After all you go topless and you play sexy games----These things I speak of are the kinds of activities that are not for the normal or majority. These things are for people without hang-ups, drama or a desire to trash anyone because they take the very fun you provide and step it up just a notch or two. Most Swingers will do their thing in the privacy of their own rooms. There are a few that will be very open about it but security will and should take care of that. Most Swingers know where and when to have sex in public. Again it is down the road a long ways from BBG. I learned that from reading your posts. See you can do a good job when you try. Again----We have never been to BBG, but let me surprise you again.......there are a few of you that do go farther than most BBG Non Swinger Regulars just because it is a thrill and a challenge, but you still bitch about security doing their job of keeping BBG's reputation as a non-swingers resort. You doing the things you do makes the world believe what it believes. Think about all the couples that come to BBG (you know the ones that stay in the quiet pool area) that have seen (the sexy pool couples) the ones on here bitching about swinging. They do things that they should not be doing according to BBG rules and Standards. These things include but are not limited to-----Sex on the beach, Bushes, courtyard, balconies, being naked where you should not be…. etc. You are all guilty of the reputation BBG has right now. You think that because you are doing it with your spouse you think you are not the guilty party!!!! Anyone and everyone who does not join you in your activities or fun talks about their experiences at BBG-----Good or Bad! What happens there does not always stay there as you well know. Just read all of your posts on here. You do a horrible job of keeping it quiet as well. Everyone can and will read between the lines, be it accurate or not. Sure----Most BBG Regulars do not have sex on the Hobie Cats, bushes, pool or balcony with/or without the drapes open just so they may or may not get caught. It is a different rush for everyone. (See other posts if you are not sure of what I am talking about.) This all leads to the BBG impression you worry so much about. I only know that BBG is not centered around Swingers because I have spent a huge amount of time on here reading. My attention like most others is drawn to the Thong, Wicked Weasel Polls, Room Balconies and Wife flirting posts.....anything that may have a sexual theme to it. Just look at the counts on post's like these! THEY ARE NOT ALL MINE!!!! Others are interested as well and most of you condemning the author of this post for misleading BBG’s Reputation when in fact most of you have in one way or another done the same thing with some other guest there that was taken back by your actions, and they went home and told two friends----who in turn told two friends and so on and so on. Just relax and have fun. We are all so very different, but we all want to have fun!!!!! Well most of us anyway. |
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02-21-2007, 01:15 AM
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| Cancuncare Addict  Join Date: 15th Jan 2006 Location: Batesville, Arkansas
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| So just what are you trying to say, cabinfever151510? (kidding) |
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