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Old 12-25-2007, 03:56 PM   #1
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I'm a BBW and am just wondering what the attitude towards them are there?

One of the reasons I love the *lifestyle* even though we don't swing is the open minds and acceptance



*Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, I just seem to have a overabundance of it *
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Old 12-26-2007, 09:50 AM   #2
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One thing I noticed about BBG/Temptations is that everyone is accepted for who they are and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. If you don't have fun here I would be shocked :!:
Come on down and party with the rest of us :michaelf: and be ready to get a little crazy. :dave:
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Old 12-26-2007, 05:15 PM   #3
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we seen menny bbw when we was there and they was all haveing alot of fun dont be shy about size i was but not next year no one bats an eye ps just look out for my hubby he got a thing for the larger lady
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Wonderful Thank you

Like I said, that's why I love the alt lifestyle.

I was trying to shop around today for a two piece bathing suit so I can go topless (i'm a 44DD) but they don't really have stuff out yet for summer
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Just to clarify a bit.... the acceptance you'll feel at BBG/Temptations is the fun people that go there, not "the lifestyle". :wink:

Desires is still the lifestyle resort, Temptations is till the party resort.

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Old 12-27-2007, 03:40 PM   #6
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Well I can only speak for the experience of the *lifestyle* here in BC as I've never been to Cancun.

Hubby and I are not swingers but we attend the lifestyle events just for the attitude and atmopshere
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Wonderful Thank you

Like I said, that's why I love the alt lifestyle.

I was trying to shop around today for a two piece bathing suit so I can go topless (i'm a 44DD) but they don't really have stuff out yet for summer
Check on line. You'll find all kinds of styles and sizes if you do a search.
I am much bigger on top and wear a regular size on the bottoms, so you can usually find large cup size tops and then seperate bottoms.
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Old 12-28-2007, 03:32 PM   #8
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I am so out of the loop?

Whats a BBW?

Big Beautiful Woman I'm guessing.

We have a group that frequents BBG several times a year and someone
always has this concern until approximately 30 minutes in the vacation.

After you have few drinks and mngle you will see that this place
is pretty tolerant of anything except outright rudeness.

It takes all shapes and sizes and at BBG, "Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit".

As far as "Lifestyle" goes, BBG is not that way. You will barely find any more "Lifestylers" here than any other adult resort. Sometimes it will be more out in the open at BBG but thats about it. Hedo or Desire it is not.

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OCJ... "Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit" doesn't work for you....


"Everybody knows you and we still don't give a shit" fits people like you and me much better.

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Old 12-28-2007, 05:28 PM   #10
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I am so out of the loop?

Whats a BBW?

Big Beautiful Woman I'm guessing.

We have a group that frequents BBG several times a year and someone
always has this concern until approximately 30 minutes in the vacation.

After you have few drinks and mngle you will see that this place
is pretty tolerant of anything except outright rudeness.

It takes all shapes and sizes and at BBG, "Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit".

As far as "Lifestyle" goes, BBG is not that way. You will barely find any more "Lifestylers" here than any other adult resort. Sometimes it will be more out in the open at BBG but thats about it. Hedo or Desire it is not.

OCJ "BBM"
BBM :?: Is that Big Beefcake from Maryland :shock: Lori
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Old 12-28-2007, 09:19 PM   #11
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Must admit I wondered what a "BBW" is too.

But OCJ is right, it's not about size / shape / race / nationality / sexual preferences. Just people enjoying themselves in a 21+ environment.
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Old 12-29-2007, 02:58 PM   #12
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Just a little help for those that are slightly confused.... :wink:

A - Asian, as in SAF (Single Asian Female)

B - Black, as in DBF (Divorced Black Female)
BBM - Big Beautiful Male - aka OCJ
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman plus-size and happy with herself
B&D - Bondage and Domination / Bondage and Dicipline
Bi - Bisexual

C - Christian, as in SWCM (Single White Christian Male)
CD or C/D - Crossdresser
CPL - Couple

D - Divorced, as in DHF (Divorced Hispanic Female)
D&S - Dominance and Submission
DDF - Drug and Disease Free

F - Female, as in SWF (Single White Female)
Fet - Fetish
FtM - Female-to-Male Transgendered
FWB - "Friends With Benefits" (friends who have sex without romantic involvement or the expectation thereof)

G - Gay, as in SBGM (Single Black Gay Male)

H - Hispanic, as in DHCM (Divorced Hispanic Christian Male)
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate

IRL - In Real Life
ISO - In Search Of, as in SWM ISO SWF

J - Jewish, as in SJM (Single Jewish Male)

L - Lesbian
LDR - Long-Distance Relationship
LS - Legally Separated
LTR - Long Term Relationship / Life Time Relationship

M - Male
MBA - Married But Available
MtF - Male-to-Female transgendered

ND, N/D - Non-Drinker / No Drugs
NK, N/K - No Kids
NS, N/S - Non-Smoker
NSA - No Strings Attached

S - Single (never married)
S&M, SM, S/M - Sado-Masochism

TDH - Tall, Dark, and Handsome
TG - TransGendered
TS - TransSexual
TV - TransVestite

VGL - Very Good Looking

W - White (in second position, as in SWM (Single White Male)) or - Widowed (in first position, as in WHF (Widowed Hispanic Female))
WAA - Will Answer All
WE, W/E - Well Endowed
WLTM - Would Like To Meet
WS, W/S - "Water Sports" (slang term indicating urination fetish)
WTR - Willing To Relocate

And so on and so on and scooby do be doooo.......

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Old 12-30-2007, 08:41 AM   #13
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Wow Jamie!!
I had never even heard of some of those abreviations.
Did I just get an education! Thanks.
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Old 12-30-2007, 01:05 PM   #14
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I agree,where did you come up with the list? You the man Jamie
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Old 12-30-2007, 02:28 PM   #15
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The Web is a beautiful thing. :wink:

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Old 12-30-2007, 05:36 PM   #16
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Thanks for the list. Although I have never met you OCJ, I was clueless in the new lingo just the same. Thanks for asking the question I didn't want to ask. You BBM!
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Old 12-31-2007, 05:17 AM   #17
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OCJ is a cool guy that always seems to have a party happening around him.

If you ever make it to Ocean City, MD be sure to stop ion for his crab cakes. :wink:

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OCJ is a cool guy that always seems to have a party happening around him.

If you ever make it to Ocean City, MD be sure to stop ion for his crab cakes. :wink:

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Old 12-31-2007, 11:56 AM   #19
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Bring an appetite and friends cause they are gooooood!

And if you're really lucky you'll get to see the lovely Ruxy while youre' there.

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Jamie, thanks to your list I have decided to use the initials VGL or WE after my name, kinda like a CPA would do. :lol:
I am trying to get Ryan to use TDH after his!
We have had more fun reading those abbreviations!!
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Just a little help for those that are slightly confused.... :wink:

A - Asian, as in SAF (Single Asian Female)

B - Black, as in DBF (Divorced Black Female)
BBM - Big Beautiful Male - aka OCJ
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman plus-size and happy with herself
B&D - Bondage and Domination / Bondage and Dicipline
Bi - Bisexual

C - Christian, as in SWCM (Single White Christian Male)
CD or C/D - Crossdresser
CPL - Couple

D - Divorced, as in DHF (Divorced Hispanic Female)
D&S - Dominance and Submission
DDF - Drug and Disease Free

F - Female, as in SWF (Single White Female)
Fet - Fetish
FtM - Female-to-Male Transgendered
FWB - "Friends With Benefits" (friends who have sex without romantic involvement or the expectation thereof)

G - Gay, as in SBGM (Single Black Gay Male)

H - Hispanic, as in DHCM (Divorced Hispanic Christian Male)
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate

IRL - In Real Life
ISO - In Search Of, as in SWM ISO SWF

J - Jewish, as in SJM (Single Jewish Male)

L - Lesbian
LDR - Long-Distance Relationship
LS - Legally Separated
LTR - Long Term Relationship / Life Time Relationship

M - Male
MBA - Married But Available
MtF - Male-to-Female transgendered

ND, N/D - Non-Drinker / No Drugs
NK, N/K - No Kids
NS, N/S - Non-Smoker
NSA - No Strings Attached

S - Single (never married)
S&M, SM, S/M - Sado-Masochism

TDH - Tall, Dark, and Handsome
TG - TransGendered
TS - TransSexual
TV - TransVestite

VGL - Very Good Looking

W - White (in second position, as in SWM (Single White Male)) or - Widowed (in first position, as in WHF (Widowed Hispanic Female))
WAA - Will Answer All
WE, W/E - Well Endowed
WLTM - Would Like To Meet
WS, W/S - "Water Sports" (slang term indicating urination fetish)
WTR - Willing To Relocate

And so on and so on and scooby do be doooo.......

Jamie

lol Where do you find this stuff? I will need to bring this list with me in May just in case there is any name calling going on!! lol Thanks for the chuckle!
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Thanks Jamie... love the list.... All I know is on 4/4/08 Leo and I become WTR... Willing to Relocate ....to TEMPTATIONS...wooohoooo!!! :lotsofmichaelf:
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I'm still curious as to what BBW means. I don't understand how being BBW and swinging go together are lifestyle events.

BBW Big Beautiful Women
BBW Baseball Writers Association of America
BBW Bath & Body Works
BBW Be Back Whenever
BBW Beautiful Black Women
BBW Big Bad Wolf
BBW Big Bisexual Woman
BBW Big Black Women
BBW Brake-By-Wire
BBW Broadband Wireless
BBW Broken Bow, Nebraska (Airport Code)
BBW Buyer Beware
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Now you get the point.. just as Adult Only doesn't mean Lifestyle either.

Temptations and a fun, wild place where people can be themselves, whatever that ends up being.

I always related it to a College Frat party myself. You'll have a serious philosophical discussion at the bar to someone getting naked in the pool after dark and everything in between. That's what makes Temptations so fun is that there is something for everyone and nothing you have to do, see, or participate in if you don't want to.

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The Web is a beautiful thing. :wink:

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OCJ... "Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit" doesn't work for you....


"Everybody knows you and we still don't give a shit" fits people like you and me much better.

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or my tagline....

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Jamie - as ALWAYS - YOU ROCK!! Thanks for the definitions - as there are a few that everyone most likely gained some knowledge from here!!

Miss you!!


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Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie
Just a little help for those that are slightly confused.... :wink:

A - Asian, as in SAF (Single Asian Female)

B - Black, as in DBF (Divorced Black Female)
BBM - Big Beautiful Male - aka OCJ
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman plus-size and happy with herself
B&D - Bondage and Domination / Bondage and Dicipline
Bi - Bisexual

C - Christian, as in SWCM (Single White Christian Male)
CD or C/D - Crossdresser
CPL - Couple

D - Divorced, as in DHF (Divorced Hispanic Female)
D&S - Dominance and Submission
DDF - Drug and Disease Free

F - Female, as in SWF (Single White Female)
Fet - Fetish
FtM - Female-to-Male Transgendered
FWB - "Friends With Benefits" (friends who have sex without romantic involvement or the expectation thereof)

G - Gay, as in SBGM (Single Black Gay Male)

H - Hispanic, as in DHCM (Divorced Hispanic Christian Male)
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate

IRL - In Real Life
ISO - In Search Of, as in SWM ISO SWF

J - Jewish, as in SJM (Single Jewish Male)

L - Lesbian
LDR - Long-Distance Relationship
LS - Legally Separated
LTR - Long Term Relationship / Life Time Relationship

M - Male
MBA - Married But Available
MtF - Male-to-Female transgendered

ND, N/D - Non-Drinker / No Drugs
NK, N/K - No Kids
NS, N/S - Non-Smoker
NSA - No Strings Attached

S - Single (never married)
S&M, SM, S/M - Sado-Masochism

TDH - Tall, Dark, and Handsome
TG - TransGendered
TS - TransSexual
TV - TransVestite

VGL - Very Good Looking

W - White (in second position, as in SWM (Single White Male)) or - Widowed (in first position, as in WHF (Widowed Hispanic Female))
WAA - Will Answer All
WE, W/E - Well Endowed
WLTM - Would Like To Meet
WS, W/S - "Water Sports" (slang term indicating urination fetish)
WTR - Willing To Relocate

And so on and so on and scooby do be doooo.......

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See, this is why I love Cancuncare, you can learn soooo much by reading all the postings!... Great job all on explaining these abbreviations...
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I am very glad you posted all those answers!

I was one totally CB

confused blonde! :lol:

like I am NOT going to remember them all though! because memory is so not my strong point! :? But I don't care, just show up, don't judge and be kind and have fun, I think that is the whole point, right? I SO can't wait!

Oh, were is it that we are going! NO, just kidding, I do remember that!
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Jamie - as ALWAYS - YOU ROCK!! Thanks for the definitions - as there are a few that everyone most likely gained some knowledge from here!!

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