tiny bikinis???

[jemstar]

Okay...here's the dilemma....
I have 3 kids and all delivered by C-section. Sorry if that is TMI, but I have a small scar across lower tummy. I see that most of the women on the forums are crazy about these tee niney bikinis. I want to wear one, but am apprehensive about the scar and the fact that my tummy is not the flattest. Would it completely gross everyone out if I wore one or should I go for it and not give a crap? Everything else is super!!!

[TexasCouple]

I say go for it as long as you’re not self-conscious about it. If you’re self conscious about it, you won’t have any fun. If you’re not, do it. People are not very judgmental there. Have fun.
Marsh

[RonaldNTalina]

Go for it, If you're happy with the way you look, then that's the important thing. Remember the motto of BBG/ Temptations: Nobody knows you and no one gives a sh*t, Cut loose and have fun.

Ronald

[xoie's omah]

Originally Posted by TexasCouple

I say go for it as long as you’re not self-conscious about it. If you’re self conscious about it, you won’t have any fun. If you’re not, do it. People are not very judgmental there. Have fun.
Marsh

Exactly what I was going to say!

[Jamie]

I'll third what Marsh said. :wink:

It's all about you baby, all about you.

Jamie

[jemstar]

i think i will buy one that has a more modest rise covering my scar. thanks everyone. maybe since boobs are great, i'll get a smaller top!

[Jamie]

Save money and skip the top. :wink:

Jamie

[J4]

I am in the same boat....three kids all C section. I do the tiny bikinis and topless all of the time...just do it.

[Jamie]

WOW.. three kids and a stomach like that... my hat is off to you. :wink: Most women would kill for that even before kids.

Jamie

[4biddenpleasrs]

Originally Posted by jemstar

i think i will buy one that has a more modest rise covering my scar. thanks everyone. maybe since boobs are great, i'll get a smaller top!

I think we need to see what you're talking about to truely be objective.. *L*

[NTBABY]

Originally Posted by jemstar

i think i will buy one that has a more modest rise covering my scar. thanks everyone. maybe since boobs are great, i'll get a smaller top!

No top needed

[Bill&Chris]

Originally Posted by xoie's omah

Exactly what I was going to say!

Ditto :!:

It is not what you look like that is important. What is important is that you have a good time
:lotsofmichaelf:

[jemstar]

I appreciate all the feedback. Very inspirational. And you are so lucky to have such a flat tummy after 3 kids. How did you do it?

[FUN IN THE SUN]

We all wish we were a bit more prefect, however kids and some age has added a few pounds, scars or marks to most of us.
It's fun to be a bit more daring with the tiny bikini's.
Without a doubt forget the top. So get up, take off the top and while your up could you get us another round of drinks!

Joyce and Troy

[J4]

Originally Posted by Bill&Chris

Ditto :!:

It is not what you look like that is important. What is important is that you have a good time
:lotsofmichaelf:

So true, very well said. People make this resort! 99.9% of the people don't care aabout what you look like and you shouldn't worry about what the other .1% think.

[J4]

Originally Posted by jemstar

I appreciate all the feedback. Very inspirational. And you are so lucky to have such a flat tummy after 3 kids. How did you do it?

Thank you, its a combo of good genetics and a lot of exercise.

[TexasCouple]

Originally Posted by J4

So true, very well said. People make this resort! 99.9% of the people don't care aabout what you look like and you shouldn't worry about what the other .1% think.

And you can recognize the .1%....they're the sleazebags that are taking the pics without permission.
Marsh

[J4]

Originally Posted by TexasCouple

And you can recognize the .1%....they're the sleazebags that are taking the pics without permission.
Marsh

So true. Interestingly enough. I just had a discussion with a person whose husband took a bunch of sneaky photos of my wife and others a couple of weeks at the resort and then sent me the link, not realizing we are in them. The guy was hiding behind a set of chairs sneaking pics, very cool! I called them on it, she got pissed and the last response I got from here was...and I quote,

"If your wife or none of the other people that were topless did not want to be in pics they should of not been where camera's were."

Disregard the typos and poor grammer, the comment was stupid enough itself!

[TexasCouple]

I almost wish that they had a "no camera rule" around the sexy pool.

Where do you live in South Dakota? We have family in Pierre, Gettysburg, and Britton.
Marsh

[Carole]

yes actually someone found me on VoyeurWeb a few weeks ago. No idea where the picture came from and who posted it. Of course I am topless but I guess I am so used to it now it doesn't really bother me. Some people there are downright creepy. To bad they have to be like that.

[J4]

Originally Posted by TexasCouple

I almost wish that they had a "no camera rule" around the sexy pool.

Where do you live in South Dakota? We have family in Pierre, Gettysburg, and Britton.
Marsh

I'll PM you....

[au022]

This is my first post. I would like to commend all of you ladies who are confident in who you are, and are not afraid to live life to the fullest. For me, its that attitude that is appealing. My wife and I are planning to come down to Temptations next year to celebrate our anniversary. I would absolutely love for her to wear a tiny bikini and sunbathe topless. I think it would really be liberating for her. However, I don't want her to feel compelled to do so because of my wishes. Do any of you have any suggestions or tips as to how I could bring this subject up, let her know my desires, but yet not put any pressure on her? I want her to want to - for it to be her decision. Any advice will be much appreciated. Once again, kudos to all you ladies!

[J4]

Originally Posted by au022

This is my first post. I would like to commend all of you ladies who are confident in who you are, and are not afraid to live life to the fullest. For me, its that attitude that is appealing. My wife and I are planning to come down to Temptations next year to celebrate our anniversary. I would absolutely love for her to wear a tiny bikini and sunbathe topless. I think it would really be liberating for her. However, I don't want her to feel compelled to do so because of my wishes. Do any of you have any suggestions or tips as to how I could bring this subject up, let her know my desires, but yet not put any pressure on her? I want her to want to - for it to be her decision. Any advice will be much appreciated. Once again, kudos to all you ladies!

Its 50/50 topless at the resort. Don't pressure her, maybe suggest it a few days into the trip...but leave it up to her. Its all comfort levels...

[Carole]

My first time there was 4 years ago and I took my top off on the very last day. The next year. I had it on for about 30 minutes, and now you cannot put clothes on me. :lol: I hate having to wear a top at the beaches here. After the initial shock. you get used to it. Maybe try away from the crowds for the first time. Like at the beach, and do it gradually. But is is about 50/50. No pressure. just do what feels comfortable.

[J4]

Originally Posted by Carole

yes actually someone found me on VoyeurWeb a few weeks ago. No idea where the picture came from and who posted it. Of course I am topless but I guess I am so used to it now it doesn't really bother me. Some people there are downright creepy. To bad they have to be like that.

That is exactly why the sneaky camera guys should get thrown in the pool, with there cameras!

If your bored, send the link to your Voyeruweb spread! Just teasing. :P

[jeffNalisa]

There is always someone who pushes the picture taking thing too far. In Cabo my wife an her friend were dancing together and it was def hot. Pics were being taken left and right. Then a guy come up and does a upskirt shot of them on the table- literally reaching across me and the other girl's husband. Now I realize that anyhting in the open iss pretty much fair game- but why cross that line and be a total perve.
Needless to say I confronted the guy with a few choice words and he later came over apologized and erased the pic.

I almost wish that they had a "no camera rule" around the sexy pool.

Problem there is like Hedo at the nude side- you have no fun pics of yourself there.

[au022]

Thanks for your advice J4 and Carol. As far as the topless sunbathing, I'll just let her decide once we get there and experience the atmosphere. She has done this often in the privacy of our own backyard, but never in a public setting. But how about the suggestion of the tiny bikini? I'm thinking something like a WW, but that may be too tiny for her first time to Temptations. Should I buy one and surprise her with it when we arrive, or just tell her my desire and let her purchase what she wants/feels comfortable with?

[Carole]

Probably better with what she feels comfortable with. Maybe something a little risque in case she feels more comfortable as days progress. You will see every boob/butt size imaginable so it's easy to feel comfortable. I have always worn a thong but now I am down to micro mini ones. :lol: I guess I am more comfortable with my butt hanging out than my boobs.

[FUN IN THE SUN]

Originally Posted by Carole

Probably better with what she feels comfortable with. Maybe something a little risque in case she feels more comfortable as days progress. You will see every boob/butt size imaginable so it's easy to feel comfortable. I have always worn a thong but now I am down to micro mini ones. :lol: I guess I am more comfortable with my butt hanging out than my boobs.

If only we all looked as good as Carole in a micro thong.

Encourage her but don't over do it. If she wants to be topless it will happen in Cancun.

[Jamie]

Actually from what I've seen is that if you do nothing at all she's more likely to pop the top.

You'll just turn around at one point and the top will be off. When that happens be sure to stay cool and not make an overly big thing about it.

The more the husband/boyfriend brings it up the more resistant the lady seems to be.

She, as all women do, knows that her man would love to see her walking around topless. I mean if you didn't you wouldn't be at Temptations. By letting the atmosphere coax her into it, it feels more natural for her and she's more likely to repeat the process again.

Once that happens the rest of the things you're talking about will proceed at their own pace.

Jamie