Are you swingers?

[discretion20102]

This thread is too funny...killed ourselves laughing at all the comments.

Looking forward to meeting some of the "YES's" above during our repeat visit Feb. 4 - 18.
Barclay & Deb

[kevko05]

what if half of you want to be and the other half not?? how do you vote??? hahaha

[bearhug]

Voted...but do I even count as a single guy?
My experience would line up with Steve's assuming...but I don't meet EVERYONE at the resort...just almost everyone...

[Redrum]

our vote is in

[shawn&steph]

our vote is in too..so looking forward to next week!!!

[jessned]

YES we voted! YES we are going back to TTR June 8-18! WooHoo!

[cuppies]

Wow, we might sound naive but I am surprised how many swingers there are! Not that there is anything wrong with it but how do you?????? Can't imagine having such an open relationship. DEFINATELY curious! We love channel 12 as much as anybody but?????

[jessned]

Originally Posted by cuppies

Wow, we might sound naive but I am surprised how many swingers there are! Not that there is anything wrong with it but how do you?????? Can't imagine having such an open relationship. DEFINATELY curious! We love channel 12 as much as anybody but?????

That is a typical reaction from most monogomous couples. They couldn't ever envision it or imagine how it works. They might consider jealousy to be a major factor, and in truth it is. But proper jealousy can and is very healthy for a relationship. The most important factor if you talk to any swinger/swayer couple is open and honest communication. How many people have you known in your lifetime that cheated on their spouse, or were disrespectful to them in the way they acted around the opposite sex? I would venture that the reason why it might seem surprisingly even in the poll is because that I guess that the majority of those that are swingers or swayers have been married or in relationships before where there was infedelity. Also, in our eyes, you don't have to be guilty of cheating just because of some physical act. A person can be just as big a cheater in their heart or mind if they are having feelings or fantasizing about someone else without their partners knowledge or blessing. You mention how erotic or hott channel 12 is while at TTR, and many don't watch porn back home. Can you imagine how erotic and hott that would be to participate in with your partner right next to you and giving their blessing and turned on by it? Most swingers/swayers don't have an emotional connection to those they have fun with. To us, it's just a very erotic moment in time, not something we want to replace with who we have. I know who I want to wake up to the next day and spend every moment with. But to not be afraid to share your fantasies and encourage your spouse to share and be open about them with you is very healthy and erotic, and then to act them out together, escalates the passion 10 fold. When you let someone else enjoy your partner, it's a huge turn on, knowing that they can't have on a regular basis what you enjoy, and when you see them enjoying themselves, you get turned on by knowing that you are honest enough to allow whatever the fantasy or fun to play itself out. We all were born with very strong sexual urges or desires, and to not share them with your spouse for fear of how they might react is not being honest first with yourself, and secondly with your partner. So, you will find very similar stories amongst swingers, and the reason why their relationships are so successful and ALIVE! They don't judge their partners or make them feel guilty for expressing their deepest fantasies and thoughts, and to share them together, well it's CALIENTE!!!!

[Btownplay247]

we voted

[Tenderloven]

very well said jessned !!!!

[Pacnate]

Counting Down! See you Friday!

[cuppies]

Originally Posted by jessned

That is a typical reaction from most monogomous couples. They couldn't ever envision it or imagine how it works. They might consider jealousy to be a major factor, and in truth it is. But proper jealousy can and is very healthy for a relationship. The most important factor if you talk to any swinger/swayer couple is open and honest communication. How many people have you known in your lifetime that cheated on their spouse, or were disrespectful to them in the way they acted around the opposite sex? I would venture that the reason why it might seem surprisingly even in the poll is because that I guess that the majority of those that are swingers or swayers have been married or in relationships before where there was infedelity. Also, in our eyes, you don't have to be guilty of cheating just because of some physical act. A person can be just as big a cheater in their heart or mind if they are having feelings or fantasizing about someone else without their partners knowledge or blessing. You mention how erotic or hott channel 12 is while at TTR, and many don't watch porn back home. Can you imagine how erotic and hott that would be to participate in with your partner right next to you and giving their blessing and turned on by it? Most swingers/swayers don't have an emotional connection to those they have fun with. To us, it's just a very erotic moment in time, not something we want to replace with who we have. I know who I want to wake up to the next day and spend every moment with. But to not be afraid to share your fantasies and encourage your spouse to share and be open about them with you is very healthy and erotic, and then to act them out together, escalates the passion 10 fold. When you let someone else enjoy your partner, it's a huge turn on, knowing that they can't have on a regular basis what you enjoy, and when you see them enjoying themselves, you get turned on by knowing that you are honest enough to allow whatever the fantasy or fun to play itself out. We all were born with very strong sexual urges or desires, and to not share them with your spouse for fear of how they might react is not being honest first with yourself, and secondly with your partner. So, you will find very similar stories amongst swingers, and the reason why their relationships are so successful and ALIVE! They don't judge their partners or make them feel guilty for expressing their deepest fantasies and thoughts, and to share them together, well it's CALIENTE!!!!

That is an awesome reply. I really appreciate the detail. It makes alot of sense. I am sure that it is very erotic and you definately would have to have a strong relationship. Which we do and strong communication. Who knows!

[vodkatonic]

hi...are second trip to temptations cancun..we keep seeing comments about this ORANGE wrist band where do u get them?hotel?bring your own?...thanks m and c ...feb9/16 2012

[Kev n Chris]

Some people play football, some baseball, surf sail or a host of other sports . Put swinging down as a great spot,, recreational sex,, best hobby we've ever had.And is excellent exercise.. Takes you to a different level of meeting people from all walks of life. Wish more people would understand it , and not condem a subject they know very little about.

[cuppies]

Originally Posted by Kev n Chris

Some people play football, some baseball, surf sail or a host of other sports . Put swinging down as a great spot,, recreational sex,, best hobby we've ever had.And is excellent exercise.. Takes you to a different level of meeting people from all walks of life. Wish more people would understand it , and not condem a subject they know very little about.

That is too funny! We certainly don't condem it. I find it amazing really and love hearing peoples views. It certainly helps us understand better.

[Rockdogs-MI]

Do they still have the swing by the Pool. I had to push the Mrs on that a few times.

[Steve]

I think this one has ran long enough.

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