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Old 05-01-2010, 04:11 PM   #1
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Default Convince my wife ttr isn't a swinger resort....

I sent some links to some pictures of the resort to my wife, many adult oriented. She says the place looks like one big sex party. SHE LOVED THE PICS!!!

On a good note she now wants to add 2 more days to our stay at TTR....

Can we lower her expections, it's not one big sex party like she thinks.

Or does TTR have multiple personalities....


gonna e-mail her this thread....
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I sent some links to some pictures of the resort to my wife, many adult oriented. She says the place looks like one big sex party. SHE LOVED THE PICS!!!

On a good note she now wants to add 2 more days to our stay at TTR....

Can we lower her expections, it's not one big sex party like she thinks.

Or does TTR have multiple personalities....


gonna e-mail her this thread....
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I've been to Hedo 8 times, Desire 6 times, Temptation 4 times. From the idea of "one big sex party", Temptation is not. Temptation is a great resort and I'm going back, but very tame compared to the other resorts.
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Im here now and havent been propositioned yet though some of our group has ... its all good though. The vibe here is so good that you will get over it quickly. Just talk to some people at the pools , meet some friends and maybe meet up for a drink at a bar or over dinner or lunch. Everyone is really nice here and Ive already decided that I would come back ... with 5 more days to go.
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Hi this will be our 4th visit this September,it is defo not a swingers resort ,just a fab fab place for some good clean(ish) fun and some fantastic people can,t wait for september Wooo Hooo!!!!!!!!!
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TTR is more like a college frat party for the slightly older crowd.. you may see some people getting a little more carried away than others, but for the most part its just a big party. Not an orgy, just a party. There may be swingers there, but there are swingers at your local grocery store too..
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it is what you make it.......................it's just that simple.......live it......enjoy it
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Hi this will be our 4th visit this September,it is defo not a swingers resort ,just a fab fab place for some good clean(ish) fun and some fantastic people can,t wait for september Wooo Hooo!!!!!!!!!
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We hope it is thats why we are going again in September....
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TTR is not a swinger resort. People hook up there yes but it is an adult’s only resort with sexually charged atmosphere but not a swingers resort anymore than, as was said before, any typical college frat party would be considered a swings party.

Why do people want to change things to what they are not? If you want a swingers resort, go to Hedo, go to Desires, that's what they are. That's what they do. You want full nudity, go to Desires. You want kids go to the Club. There are hotels for everything, please stop trying to change TTR into something it is not. It is unique in what it is. We like it that way. Everyone is welcome to come and have fun within the envelope that is TTR. Please leave it as you found it.

Sorry for the rant but no matter how you try and say things politely, some people just don't get the message. Guess we have to become a little more direct.

{climbing down off the soapbox now......}

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The "unofficial Mayor" has spoken, He will resume his official Mayor duties starting May 7th. luckey for us is the founder of the lets all "get drunk and laid" party. no wonder nobody has even run against him. but on a serious note he just spoke the plain truth-- is not and never was a swing resort. fun place and worth the vacation dollar hell yea.
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cerytainly if you want it to be a swingers resort......you'll find it......but you'll have to look for it...............if you'd rather be monagamous.......it's there too.........don't worry......let the week come to you!
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TTR is not a swinger resort. People hook up there yes but it is an adult’s only resort with sexually charged atmosphere but not a swingers resort anymore than, as was said before, any typical college frat party would be considered a swings party.

Why do people want to change things to what they are not? If you want a swingers resort, go to Hedo, go to Desires, that's what they are. That's what they do. You want full nudity, go to Desires. You want kids go to the Club. There are hotels for everything, please stop trying to change TTR into something it is not. It is unique in what it is. We like it that way. Everyone is welcome to come and have fun within the envelope that is TTR. Please leave it as you found it.

Sorry for the rant but no matter how you try and say things politely, some people just don't get the message. Guess we have to become a little more direct.

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hey jamie

jamie do agree with you for the most part on this one - but for whatever reason (been about 7 times) this time seemed more swinger friendly than in years past

...........could have just been the weekend we were there???

now its pretty well known and established that t and i do not consider ourselves swingers ------------- we do have several very close friends who are ------------so we are around them quite frequently and certainly understand the lifestyle on at least some level

was just a tad bit surprised that it definitely seemed far more open to that than in years past

i will be interested to see les and lynfas as well as glenn/moniques and some of the others take on my perception too as their post in recent years seem to favor your take on the subject

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welcome back diamondheaded, hope everybody had a great time!!!
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welcome back diamondheaded, hope everybody had a great time!!!
thanks guys

yall have a safe trip

whew was a tad bit wilder than years past

trip report tomorrow

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Old 05-03-2010, 02:24 PM   #17
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Well Jamie if its not then why is it advertised on the largets swinging site on the net as a swingers resort.. we will just have to make sure more swinging happens......
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We went last year for the first time Jun 11-21. We have been to Desire Cabo, (before it became just like TTR), Desire Cancun, and we chose TTR for a specific reason. Would I consider us swingers....no! Not as most would view the term swinging! We play on occasion, when everything is clicking, and things just seem to evolve that way. We don't go looking for it, I guess I should say, but if it finds us and we're enjoying things, then fine. Now would I consider us "lifestyle" persons? Yes. We would define lifestyle as TTR. It is whatever you want it to be. We like to be around sexy people, people that like to party, socialize, not live in a shell, or as others or family would want them to live. We enjoy lots of things, from nudity, to topless, to watching others have fun, to being part of the fun, and others watching us have fun. Most if not all involves alchohol. It's not something we do all the time or when sober. Desires is that...it's a swingers resort, and action is everywhere and the majority go there for that, very few go there to be nudists for their stay. TTR was as comfortable as it gets for us. The people are wonderful. They know how to cut loose, how to scale back. Sexy fun and trouble can be found there, if you're looking for it. Quiet and relaxation can be found on the other side of the resort, if you desire. (At least we've seen it from afar. LOL) I'm kind of rambling on now, but I guess the bottom line for us would be this...... We chose Desires twice in the past because of the fact it was nude, and the opportunity to be around an atmosphere we enjoy. When the recession hit hard, and economy changed, we decided to give TTR a shot last year. Best decision we ever made. You may start seeing more then usual what "others" label as "swingers" there, because of the price differance in resorts. I would just consider TTR to be a "lifestyle" resort, a Vegas type of place that lives up to it's slogan in the truest sense....'Nobody knows you...and nobody gives a sh*t'! We can go to TTR for 11 days, airfare and all cheaper then 7 days at Desire. I think we're hooked for life. Ed and Jessica
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Old 06-11-2012, 03:57 PM   #19
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The main reason that wife swapping has become so successful is that society has now become more open-minded to these practices
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easiest way to prove it's not a swingers resort is the trip reports. read the more recent ones in this forum and and slightly older ones in this forum ==> Temptation Cancun Reviews Forum | Cancuncare Forum

and pay little attention to the uninformed reviews on tripadvisor. except the one i wrote!
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Personally we always tell people it's a "Swinger Friendly" resort. What we mean by that is that it is NOT a swingers Resort. If it was, an overwhelming majority of the guests would be swingers, the resort would have swinger games, there would not be signs asking you to keep you sex acts in your room.

On the other hand, it's not a total "Vanilla" (non swinger) resort either. It is a resort that allows swingers to enjoy their vacation as much as non swingers and we don't need to fear being ostrasized if we're found out. As a matter of fact, some of us are now wearing our own discreet wristbands. This helps us know who else is in the lifestyle without offending non swingers.

The thing that makes TTR the most unique resort is the fact that EVERYBODY gets along. By that I mean: swingers / Vanillas, USA / Canada / UK, Black / white, gay / straight / lesbien, HWP / non HWP, from women who wear thongs to women wear one piece suits, topless / non topless, mid 20's to mid 70's . . . EVERYBODY gets along.

Book your trip, never worry about this subject again. Just show up, and you will instantly learn why we all go back year after year. This May was our 12th trip in 12 years.
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If your wife is looking for one big sex party, she will be disappointed. There's a very flirty atmosphere, lots of people letting loose in ways they can't at home, and plenty of stuff that is sexy without actually turning into sex.

However, if your wife is looking for a sex party here and there, it's likely she will find some like-minded people. I just don't want her to get there and be disappointed it's not some big crazy hoopla 24/7.
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Personally we always tell people it's a "Swinger Friendly" resort. What we mean by that is that it is NOT a swingers Resort. If it was, an overwhelming majority of the guests would be swingers, the resort would have swinger games, there would not be signs asking you to keep you sex acts in your room.

On the other hand, it's not a total "Vanilla" (non swinger) resort either. It is a resort that allows swingers to enjoy their vacation as much as non swingers and we don't need to fear being ostrasized if we're found out. As a matter of fact, some of us are now wearing our own discreet wristbands. This helps us know who else is in the lifestyle without offending non swingers.

The thing that makes TTR the most unique resort is the fact that EVERYBODY gets along. By that I mean: swingers / Vanillas, USA / Canada / UK, Black / white, gay / straight / lesbien, HWP / non HWP, from women who wear thongs to women wear one piece suits, topless / non topless, mid 20's to mid 70's . . . EVERYBODY gets along.

Book your trip, never worry about this subject again. Just show up, and you will instantly learn why we all go back year after year. This May was our 12th trip in 12 years.
lol had to look up HWP. thats funny...
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lol had to look up HWP. thats funny...
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HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.
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Funny story, we were there in April and met a cop from Toronto. He was talking about the rumour that there were tons of swingers there, yet he hadn't met any. My wife told him to throw a rock and he would hit one - lol he was shocked. Told him he wasn't approacheable enough and needed to have another drink, then maybe...

If you want it, it is there, but it isn't an in your face thing either which is good in my view.
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I agree with Jamie and rob both. Last September it was a little tamer then in April. For some reason, some of the websites from over the pond represent ttr as a swinger resort and also a singles resort. The swinging crowd dosnt go around flaunting on Jamie's soapbox yelling "I am swinger , who wants some?". If you want some action, go around and talk to people...if you don't...guess what...go and talk to people...if you don't want to swing ,sway, or whatever but are approached..just politely say no...no harm done
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I agree with Jamie and rob both. Last September it was a little tamer then in April. For some reason, some of the websites from over the pond represent ttr as a swinger resort and also a singles resort. The swinging crowd dosnt go around flaunting on Jamie's soapbox yelling "I am swinger , who wants some?". If you want some action, go around and talk to people...if you don't...guess what...go and talk to people...if you don't want to swing ,sway, or whatever but are approached..just politely say no...no harm done
Swingers are everywhere but are like the chupacabra and we all know what the unicorn is...
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and I thought that swingers had big neon signs with them that said: "Come and do the hoky poky with us". so no???.....

One month to go for this TTR newbie, can't wait. See you all at the pool
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Don't worry Vince and Wendy. Harvest was early this year...so couldn't pull of the trip. Maybe next year...definantly September though. Between cotton and peanuts...
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Got news for everyone ....

It is starting to seem like, literally, everywhere has a swingers/lifestyle place to go. it's here folks, whether we want to jump in and play, look from a distance, get up close to watch and be watched, or turn up our noses at what we don't like as if it were dirty, nasty, or unnatural.

Houston has, I did a google search recently just to see, about 7 straight out swingers/lifestyle clubs, from those with open playrooms to those where it's more high scall meet and greet, like that. Those are the ones openly "out there." Probably lots more sort of underground, as it were.

So, your wife is probably just as likely to run across a swinger or a couple in the lifestyle, at your local grocery store as at TTR. Really.

Doesn't really address your point, I know. Stacia & I've been to TTR 6 times, and only on one time did we actually come across an actual "group" of lifestylers. Just once out of 6 times, and that group was about 30 people out of... how many? Like 500?
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