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Old 11-19-2010, 07:57 PM   #1
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Default swinger place or not??

read mixed reviews on temptation, some claim its for swingers some say not?? we are a coulple not into full swap but wouldn't mind w/w action while spouse watch ! we like to party and have fun is this the place for us?
dont know what to expect fill us in lol
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Every hotel in the world has swingers.

TTR is like a college frat party where there is a very sexy atmosphere and a lot of flirting goes on.

That being said people do hook up, and have a great time.

Most folks are swayers, where the flirting is the fun but the deal doesn't get consumated.

If people do want to hook up, like at the frat party, they head up to the rooms, have their fun and come back to the party.

So go, explore your boundries (those you have discussed before you start), respect the answer if it is no, but have fun.

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It can be whatever you make of it..
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We are going to make it fun! Hopefully there are some single ladies....lol
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Old 11-20-2010, 10:59 PM   #6
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yeah there are more ppl looking for 3-ways than swingers looking for swapping ... just ask my GF ... i think she lost count of the number of room numbers she got when she was walking around the resort on her own :P

I should probably add though that she wasn't actually harrassed or anything ... except when she was carrying the donkey with her ... then everyone was harrassing her for a donkey shot!
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We are looking to hook up with a sexy cple or single lady while we are there..
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Temptations is lifestyle friendly, but you will not see anything happening in public. Full nudity (bottomless) is not acceptable and sex in public is grounds for expulsion. That being said, it is an adult resort. Flirting and sexy clothing is encouraged both for men and women. It is like anything in life, the more you put into it, the more you will get out of it.

There are people of all walks of life there and comfort levels there. Most likely if you are looking, you will find others at your level of comfort, be it, full, soft, GoG, etc.

The best advice I could give is to go with no expectations and you will not be disappointed.

Be friendly. Be sexy. Be willing to experience something new. Be willing to be surprised. Be prepared. Be clean and nice smelling.

Don't be pushy. Don't EXPECT anything. Don't be over-intoxicated. Don't take your bottoms off in public unless the entertainment staff has given you express permission to do so (ie. during a game). Don't be rude. Don't be THAT guy/girl/couple.
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Yes... THere is 3 of them around the sexy pool bar.
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Temptations is lifestyle friendly, but you will not see anything happening in public. Full nudity (bottomless) is not acceptable and sex in public is grounds for expulsion. That being said, it is an adult resort. Flirting and sexy clothing is encouraged both for men and women. It is like anything in life, the more you put into it, the more you will get out of it.

There are people of all walks of life there and comfort levels there. Most likely if you are looking, you will find others at your level of comfort, be it, full, soft, GoG, etc.

The best advice I could give is to go with no expectations and you will not be disappointed.

Be friendly. Be sexy. Be willing to experience something new. Be willing to be surprised. Be prepared. Be clean and nice smelling.

Don't be pushy. Don't EXPECT anything. Don't be over-intoxicated. Don't take your bottoms off in public unless the entertainment staff has given you express permission to do so (ie. during a game). Don't be rude. Don't be THAT guy/girl/couple.
Wow you guys said it all, and very nicely I might add. This is the best advice I've seen on here.. good one guys.
however I've been known to break the over-intoxicated part... not that we do it on purpose.. it just seems to happen when we are at Temptations.. Huh !
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I find that comment about not taking your pants off in public very funny. Not sure why since I have been to TTR more time than I can count. There is always "that guy" at the sexy pool who just walks out and drops his shorts. I can't think of a single time in my life where I had to be told to put my pants back on.
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I find that comment about not taking your pants off in public very funny. Not sure why since I have been to TTR more time than I can count. There is always "that guy" at the sexy pool who just walks out and drops his shorts. I can't think of a single time in my life where I had to be told to put my pants back on.
HAHA I couldnt agree more, I always laugh at the level of "Comfort" some guys feel at TTR... I wish that just once I had the Balls ..so to speak to be able to just drop em and walk around. haha
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Don't be over-intoxicated.
This part has me confused...there's an "over-intoxicated"? lol
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This part has me confused...there's an "over-intoxicated"? lol
yes brewster tis true

ask my wife

here are the signs

(1) you try and pick up the female bartender when your wife goes to the bathroom

(2) you are so drunk you cant remember the gate code and you have to park your vehicle at the gate and then climb the gate and walk the half mile to the house

(3) you piss in the bath tub


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Standing up or sitting down, or for that matter laying down...
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It can be whatever you make of it..
I haven't been there yet but I think this says it all.
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I haven't been there yet but I think this says it all.

hey Soda haven't seen you on here for awhile have you figgered out a date to get down there yet??
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yes brewster tis true

ask my wife

here are the signs

(1) you try and pick up the female bartender when your wife goes to the bathroom

(2) you are so drunk you cant remember the gate code and you have to park your vehicle at the gate and then climb the gate and walk the half mile to the house

(3) you piss in the bath tub


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LMAO - I'll have to watch for those critical symptoms. #1 must have been a record short term relationship...lol.
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It's there if you want it. We have swung there a few times but have also been and not swung. Think it also depends on what your looking for. There's so many cpls looking for another fem to join them that it can become very hard for whole cpl swingers to play. If you go expecting you'll be dissapointed, just gowith the flow xx
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Wow you guys said it all, and very nicely I might add. This is the best advice I've seen on here.. good one guys.
however I've been known to break the over-intoxicated part... not that we do it on purpose.. it just seems to happen when we are at Temptations.. Huh !
Thank you!!

I learned the unfortunate over-intoxicated part the first year we went. I woke up laying on the beach getting poked (in the shoulder, not the fun way) by the female half of a couple we had met. (She was afraid I was dead.) The sun was so bright, I couldn't open my eyes to see what, if any, clothes I was wearing. In the distance I could hear my wife saying "Don't poke him". (That's another story *sheepish grin*) Luckily I was wearing shorts, although that's all I was wearing, and I have no recollection of how I got there. I had to literally crawl to the ocean to cool off. (I still couldn't open my eyes, so I had to crawl by the sound of the waves.) (Un)Luckily, I had unwittingly staked out a great bed on the beach, but I felt so bad all day, I couldn't even enjoy it. (I found out later that my wife had passed out in our room and didn't even realize I was gone till the next morning.)

It's the little lessons in life we learn that mean so much!!
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hey Soda haven't seen you on here for awhile have you figgered out a date to get down there yet??
Hey guys! I still check the board to see what's happening and love reading the trip reports. Originally I wanted to go in October but unfortunately that never happened. My schedule is somewhat flexible in that I can book a trip without worry however my friend is the issue. I guess if we can't work something out I'll just come alone or find someone. I REALLY wanna go! This looks like too much fun to pass up. I could use a vacation like this..
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Temptations is lifestyle friendly, but you will not see anything happening in public. Full nudity (bottomless) is not acceptable and sex in public is grounds for expulsion. That being said, it is an adult resort. Flirting and sexy clothing is encouraged both for men and women. It is like anything in life, the more you put into it, the more you will get out of it.

There are people of all walks of life there and comfort levels there. Most likely if you are looking, you will find others at your level of comfort, be it, full, soft, GoG, etc.

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Be friendly. Be sexy. Be willing to experience something new. Be willing to be surprised. Be prepared. Be clean and nice smelling.

Don't be pushy. Don't EXPECT anything. Don't be over-intoxicated. Don't take your bottoms off in public unless the entertainment staff has given you express permission to do so (ie. during a game). Don't be rude. Don't be THAT guy/girl/couple.


Well said! And spot on as well.
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Thank you!!

I learned the unfortunate over-intoxicated part the first year we went. I woke up laying on the beach getting poked (in the shoulder, not the fun way) by the female half of a couple we had met. (She was afraid I was dead.) The sun was so bright, I couldn't open my eyes to see what, if any, clothes I was wearing. In the distance I could hear my wife saying "Don't poke him". (That's another story *sheepish grin*) Luckily I was wearing shorts, although that's all I was wearing, and I have no recollection of how I got there. I had to literally crawl to the ocean to cool off. (I still couldn't open my eyes, so I had to crawl by the sound of the waves.) (Un)Luckily, I had unwittingly staked out a great bed on the beach, but I felt so bad all day, I couldn't even enjoy it. (I found out later that my wife had passed out in our room and didn't even realize I was gone till the next morning.)

It's the little lessons in life we learn that mean so much!!

LMAO...That is so funny.. we've had a few of those days.. not to the extent of yours... neither of us have passed out on the beach... yet!!!! however we've had the.. what the hell happened last night... good times..
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Hey guys! I still check the board to see what's happening and love reading the trip reports. Originally I wanted to go in October but unfortunately that never happened. My schedule is somewhat flexible in that I can book a trip without worry however my friend is the issue. I guess if we can't work something out I'll just come alone or find someone. I REALLY wanna go! This looks like too much fun to pass up. I could use a vacation like this..
Well you know Soda there is nothing like New Years Eve at Temptations... hurry up book... see ya there...and you will find lots of friends while your there..
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Met swinging couples there last year,, and a non singing couple who left as swingers. We think too many people are coy about admitting to being swingers, because it is a suprise when you tell people what you do, it opens up loads of questions and makes good conversation. Think of the people who want to try but dont know how to approach the subject,,,, they can always runaway screaming.. Be real,, it is a resort for ADULTS that never grow up....and wouldnt want it any other way.
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Default Honeymoon Shenanigans at Temptation!

We got married in June, but we've delayed the honeymoon since we're on the water every weekend possible during boating season. We'll be at Temptation between Christmas and New Years.

Is there anyone here who plans to be there while we're there? We are in the lifestyle (primarily threesomes), but this is our honeymoon. We're open to playing if it happens, but we're not specifically seeking it. Our intent in choosing Temptation was to just have a fun honeymoon in an open atmosphere where we could be with like-minded, fun people, and hook up if the moment feels right. Did we choose the right place?
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I think this is a place where you get what you ask for. If you tend to not be social, nobody is going to force you to be. If you tend to be social, everyone you meet is friendly and more than happy to have more people to have fun with.

Darcy and I are not part of the lifestyle, but we have no issue with it. I can't say I was disappointed at seeing Darcy kiss another woman while we were joking and having a blast in the sexy pool...

This resort is whatever you make of it. My advice - get out there and meet people and have fun. You won't regret it and no one will ever push you to do anything.
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Wow you guys said it all, and very nicely I might add. This is the best advice I've seen on here.. good one guys.
however I've been known to break the over-intoxicated part... not that we do it on purpose.. it just seems to happen when we are at Temptations.. Huh !
I think i broke the rules, bottoms off quite alot actually. Funny cause the first time I met Erin and her guy I was secretly naked in the pool.
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