ladies...opinion please??

[kevko05]

Ok...here is a question presented by a guy on his first trip to TTR. As this is the first time I have been to a resort thats topless and etc. I'd like to find out what behavior is most appreciated and acceptable by the ladies. I know that I am going to find some very attractive ladies and appreciating them to the fullest and maybe finding myself staring longer than I should be. Only a gentle nudge from the wife may bring me back to reality. So.....what makes you feel appreciated the most? Is a good stare and smile appreciated or is it better to try the " I dont see it" approach? Help !!!!!!

[Stewarts]

First I don't think it's a big deal to be topless, as most of us don't especially the ladies that are topless. If you look around normally then you should be fine. We have our tops off and know we'll be looked at but not excessively drooled over. After a few days you'll get used to it and it wont be a big deal anyway.... Just dont be creepy about it. lol

[shawn&steph]

I have to agree with the Stewarts on this >>>

[Canadian Dos Equis fan]

Always take a pair of mirrored sunglasses. What? They have a good UV rating!

Just kidding be polite and I find that usually works out well.

[NashvilleKary]

I had the same worries last year on my first trip... I was going solo as a single guy and was afraid that without a wingman to nudge me back to reality, I'd be caught staring at all the beautiful breasts... After the first 20 minutes of wiping the spittle off of my chin, seeing all the beautiful women seemed pretty normal and was able to get my mind out of the gutter and just have fun... Well, hopefully that's what happened... After a few dozen to many drinks I may have stared a little, but hopefully not overly creepy like.

[Western Iowa Traveler]

our first trip I honestly didn't notice or think it was a big deal. Within 5 minutes of us arriving we ran into someone whom we are still friends with who was topless, didn't think anything of it.... the next morning she started out in a totally sheer top, and for what ever reason, I couldn't keep my eyes off of that, that was more shocking to me than not wearing anything at all

[Bulldurham]

My huband calls it "boob numb"...you just get used to it. When I put a top on for the evening he would say..."wait a minute, there's something different..."

[kevko05]

Originally Posted by Bulldurham

My huband calls it "boob numb"...you just get used to it. When I put a top on for the evening he would say..."wait a minute, there's something different..."

Now thats funny !!!!

[dmac]

If you get caught staring just politely smile and say "Nice Shoes".

[turk870]

I agree with everyone above, after the initial shock of seeing topless women it just becomes the norm. Although, you may find yourself staring intently at the shall we say more inventive bikinis. That sling shot thing that looks a little painful always gets me. Mirrored sunglasses definitely help out. And, as long as there are no attempts to grab things that are not yours (unless granted), you will be fine.

Brandie

[kevko05]

My only worry is having that "male" problem at an inopportune time. I hope the water is cool........for obvious reasons.

[Donald]

Originally Posted by kevko05

My only worry is having that "male" problem at an inopportune time. I hope the water is cool........for obvious reasons.

Funny ,,that problem never came ''up''

[glenn/monique]

I have had guys come straight out and say nice tits. It didn't bother me anymore than another female saying nice dress. I think previous post saying that the bikinis are more stared at.....they are much more noticable that being topless. Last year I had one guy come up to me when I had just a white t shirt on to protect my shoulders from burning and said that is damm sexy.

[Bambi]

I know about now you are saying "I will never get tired of seeing topless women", every new person planning a trip to TTR says the same thing. Guess what? after an hour, it really won't be a big deal because so many women are topless. As my husband says "I can actually tell you the color eye's of every girl I talk to". It sounds like a line of Bullshit, but it's so true.

As dmac said "If you get caught staring just politely smile and say "Nice Shoes". That's the polite way at TTR to compliment any part (or all parts) of a womens body.

Have Fun!

[kevko05]

ok thanks!!! Im probably over thinking this a bit but without having experienced these situations I just wanted to be prepared. I dont know if Im normal or easily aroused but any time in the past when I was talking to a naked lady my body goes into "mating" mode. And yes.....it is totally noticeable. Im sure I will in time relax as it becomes the norm but its just getting by the breaking in period I'll need to deal with. Either way..it should be fun and totally looking forward to it!!!

[trychaser]

I have to say that coming from the UK and holidaying in Europe for years I find the American obsession with boobs so funny (please don't take offence!).

I have been to topless and nude beaches all over for years and the one thing that defines them in Europe is that actually they are not "sexy" at all - you see families with kids of all ages, body shapes and sizes of every scale (often the older men have bigger boobs than the women!!), young couples, singles.... Unless you actually search out places for "sexual socialising" you would be pretty unaware of anyone taking any interest in your body parts. Maybe it's just like when food is plentiful no one feels hungry?!

Whether we are just more relaxed about boobs, breasts, titties, hooters, norks, jugs etc etc (insert your preferred word!) or not I can't say but if someone comes up to me and says nice boobs then as long as they don't have one hand down their swim shorts then I'm cool with that....don't expect me to say "thanks, wanna squeeze 'em?" because you will go away disappointed (be more imaginative and who knows? And I DO like cocktails... LOL!)

Anyway, guys - remember that all women like to be appreciated - it would be nice to hear "you look fantastic today Deb" rather than "Cor great tits" but if that's the best you got then you better be smiling and have a twinkle in your eye!!. If we go topless then "the girls" are seeing the sun because we want them to - if that gives you pleasure too then thats a win win!

Deb xx

[D&V1980]

Don't put to much thought into the topless thing. TTR is for adults and we all go there to have adult fun. Sit back and enjoy the atmosphere! You will have a blast.

[Melissa&Patrick]

Lol go to a nudist resort in FL,,lol boobs are no prob 10mins u dont stare anymore

[Lovetotravel]

I enjoy knowing that I got your attention. Plus at my age, its nice to know I still having something going for me even thought they are bought and paid for. Staring doesn't hurt but my head is on my shoulders when we talk. Oh hell just be a man and have fun.

[kevko05]

Originally Posted by Melissa&Patrick

Lol go to a nudist resort in FL,,lol boobs are no prob 10mins u dont stare anymore

Not sure if "stare" is the correct word. "Appreciate" seems more appropriate and appealing. I'd try hard not to over appreciate. BTW ..where in florida?? lol

[andrewb_88]

Originally Posted by kevko05

Not sure if "stare" is the correct word. "Appreciate" seems more appropriate and appealing. I'd try hard not to over appreciate. BTW ..where in florida?? lol

South Beach (Miami) is topless and Haulover (not sure on spelling) is a clothing optional beach. I think Haulover is north of Miami.

For my limited travel experience I think South Beach is one of the best beaches in the U.S. The ocean water is as clear as it gets in the US, good sand, and the topless option doesn't hurt

[Bambi]

Originally Posted by Lovetotravel

I enjoy knowing that I got your attention. Plus at my age, its nice to know I still having something going for me even thought they are bought and paid for. Staring doesn't hurt but my head is on my shoulders when we talk. Oh hell just be a man and have fun.

I agree 100%, I'm 56 years old, feel free to stare, appreciate and compliment me all you want, LOL. At this age it's a constant battle between all my body parts and gravity, at least my store bought boobs are staying where they were placed 9 years ago .


Have to run, need to get back into my gym and keep battling with that damn gravity

Just be yourself, you'll have a great time