Best bars/clubs for male attention

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  1. srs

    srs Newbie Registered Member

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    Hi all

    Hoping to go with my boyfriend to Cancun in May, first time. I've read online that guys in bars/clubs can be quite pushy, even if a girl is out with a guy. ie be very forward, and groping etc.

    This is actually what I'm looking for... We're not really Couples resort people (boyfriend doesn't really want to go to Temptations) but we both enjoy me getting lots of attention and hooking up in clubs - the dirtier the better :) Somewhere I can wear revealing clothes, lots of up for it single guys (not too young, I'm 30), but not a Swingers place. Cheap and cheesey is what we want, body shots, sexy stage games, frisky behaviour etc. But places we can flit in and out of rather than pay $100 to stay the whole night...

    Many thanks for any suggestions... xx
     
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    lovers4funtimes Enthusiast Registered Member

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    You should sign up on Swinglifestyle.com and post your dates and what you are looking for.

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    srs Newbie Registered Member

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    Thanks but that's a swingers page. I want to avoid pre-arranged stuff because we've tried it in the past and it innevitably ends up with the guy expecting sex, and awkward situations. I just want a really wild environment full of very keen guys where there is no expectation of sex or even nudity, but i can be as naughty as i wish... ie let them 'pull' me.

    Any bar/club or even hotel ideas?

    Thanks...
     
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    srs Newbie Registered Member

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    Think Magaluf for the slightly older...

    I like the sound of Patty O's to be honest, sounds fun, but not keen on the idea of spending all week in the same place... Would rather roam free... :lotsofmichaelfs:
     
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    Donald Devil's advocate Registered Member

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    Winner of the most confusing post of the year :)


    You want to be hit on aggressively, groped by single guys, get dirt attention, hook up in clubs , wear revealing clothes, mingle with lots of single guys, sexy games, body shots , yet NOT a swingers place


    You just described Temptation Patio,s in March ,
     
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    I heard through friends that Congo Bongo is the party place to be.
     
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    Donald nailed it! PattyOs.... Always a good time and great people....but in February.
     
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    srs Newbie Registered Member

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    Hi. Thanks for the replies.

    I read about Congo Bongos but it seemed like more an entertainment venue than a dive bar. Patty O's does sound like a winner in Feb but I'm commited to May.

    I can see how it sounds confusing Donald... For the record i didnt say i wanted to be hit on aggressively, but confident guys willing to take the lead would be nice- I'm a bit shy to start with. Pushy is ok with me.

    To be totally honest we're not swingers, we don't really want to socialise with our clothes off, and don't want to partner swap. But we do enjoy a sexy edge and we BOTH like to see me getting flirty and dirty in bars, and are happy for that go as far as i like depending on the guy.

    We've tried swinging and we've tried doing stuff in normal bars. Swinging is awkward to us, and in normal bars guys are put off that I'm out with my boyfriend... So a free-for-all care-free environment is what we need. Stage games etc help with the flirting and showing off.

    Xx
     
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    Jamie Mayor of Temptation Registered Member

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    I was confused that she would want guys to it on her will she's in realving clothes, grope her and NOT expect sex.... I don't know about ALL guys but most I know, including me, is if I'm rubbing my hands on you I have sex on my mind. May not get it, but it's on my mind. :)

    Jamie
     
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    Yeah of course... But being in a public situation if I didn't fancy it then it's easy to say no thanks and find someone else, because there's no expectation for frollics jn a nightclub to go the whole way.

    Anyway, digressing a bit... I know our views are not mainstream... Thats probably why we're not swingers :)
     
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    he says:
    It seems like TTR/Paty-O's would suit you both just fine although one look around the dance floor would reveal math is not your friend, there are many sexy women at TTR on any given night. At least at TTR you'd be under the umbrella of a "no means no" environment acknowledged by the guests and backed up by security if need be, perhaps not the case in a divey bar in Cancun. Best of luck in finding whatever it is you want. :huh:
     
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    You might be looking for a male strip club where your hubby tells the strippers that you're at their disposal all night. No really sure where this would work as you outlined otherwise??? Can't say that I've ever experienced this kind of place where things are so private, yet public also.
     
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    Either I'm describing it badly or you're all reading it wrong...

    I never mentioned I wanted to be the only female (math not my friend?), and I never mentioned I wanted it to be private...

    I just meant where is busy, loud, and crude... where guys are likely to be trying it on with girls. I can do the rest :)

    Every video I've seen of Paty O's on Youtube to be fair it seems quite quiet, and there isn't much action other than people stood around talking and a few performing acts. I realise that might be because filming isn't allowed possibly. Can you access Paty O's if you aren't staying at Temptation or is it guest only?

    Thanks...
     
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    and yet you don't consider yourself swingers ??
     
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    Well no. Not entirely sure what you are getting at really. I don't think it really matters what we are, we just know what we like and don't like.

    Clearly we are into elements of the swinging scene, we are somewhere on the scale I suppose. But to us at least, swinging is mainly partner swapping and organised clubs/events. Temptation is a couples resort so will likely be filled with couples. Sure some may be there to swap partners, but my interest is in single guys. I'd bet very few couples are there so the guy can pull and leave Mrs behind.

    Neither of us want my boyfriend to join in anything, just watch. That's why our encounters are generally brief ones in clubs etc.
    We both really enjoy me being exhibitionist (flashing, groping) and getting jiggy with guys in public.
    Neither of us enjoy being naked in public.
    Neither of us would enjoy socialising with our clothes off (with swingers or non-swingers).
    Neither of us would enjoy swimming in a pool with older (relative to us) men naked, which is the case on one Temptation video Youtube has).

    We just want to dip in, do what we enjoy, and let everyone else get on with what they enjoy. I think that's fair enough. So we're just looking for some nightlife which is wild and brash that a cougar won't look too out of place mingling and being a bit 'girls gone wild'.

    :aktion060:
     
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    Getting clearer :)
     
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    wild1s Naughty 'n Nice Registered Member

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    Sounds pretty amateurish. Seriously, just go ahead and phuck and get it over with! Lol!
     
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    Wow. I guess the main question is, what does getting jiggy with it mean??? Are you fucking other guys in public? Going down on them? Or just being flirty and naughty dancing/kissing on them. Honestly this almost seems like a Troll post.
     
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    Pushy,forward,groping, all around sounds very disrespecful an would be th kinda thing that would get a guy in a lot of shit and that would stop us from goin to TTR
     
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    OK.. I think I'm getting it as to what she's looking for.. And it used to be the old BBG/TTR in the fact that it's all about the tease and not consummating the deal.

    It's the Swayer outlook at it that a lot of us at TTR work with. Yeah there are swingers there but everyone is not a swinger. The difference I think is that we all have known each other for a while and know each others limits on the tease factor.. from both male and female side of the relationships.

    So we all can flirt and tease each other, rub bodies, do body shots, maybe even kiss and rub but know the limits.

    What she is looking for is this atmosphere in a public place with strangers. That would eliminate the previous knowledge factor and would invalidate our comfort levels. So...

    To SRS, I think the videos you see of PadyO's don't tell the true story when most of our major groups go down or when large numbers of folks get together year after year and build the comfort level to play.

    Like I said before when I am rubbing a woman's body I have sex on my mind. But having been around these folks for a long time I know what the end result will be before I start but it still don't take away from the enjoyment of the moment. :)

    So, TTR has exactly what you are looking for but it takes a little time to get into the flow for everyone to know you both and you to know us. But if you spend the time you have the best vacations of your life and become a constant repeater like all of us.

    Jamie