Best bars/clubs for male attention

Discussion in 'Cancun Info' started by srs, Jan 26, 2016.

  1. srs

    srs Newbie Registered Member

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    Wild1s - you're an idiot, and that's exactly the sort of lowlife view that is the reason we wouldn't go to a swingers place with people like you.

    Qccritter - I wasn't sure how explicit was tolerable on this forum. I'm not talking about public sex. I enjoy the buildup side to this 'swaying' (I like that), so I'd enjoy being hit on by a guy, and of course dancing, groping, kissing, flashing, no objections if there is some light sexual activity in public, fingering etc. Boyfriend would love seeing me with someone else. Then if it suits the situation, we take it elsewhere. But crucially when we're done we're done. No socialising or seeing them again. Just our preference. How can it be a 'troll' post, this isn't a swingers forum, this is Cancun info and I was simply asking for info!

    Tease - not if the lady in question was enjoying it and encouraging it. Perhaps I came across wrong with 'pushy'... but I was trying to get across the fact that sometimes back home nights out end up in disappointment on this front, as nobody will approach me if they see I'm out with a guy. A bit of persistence and cheekiness wouldn't be a bad thing.

    Jamie - thanks for the considered reply, but I do get all that. It's just not for us. We are not social animals. We enjoy this as a bit on the side, not a lifestyle. We have no Desire to make friends or have repeat encounters. Maybe if we were full on partner swappers we would. Maybe when we're older we will grow into it. But we like our approach. Everyone gets frisky, and boyfriend and I have great sex afterwards.
     
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    qccritter Regular Registered Member

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    I'm sorry if you are taking the responses the way you are, but you're super vague. And even now that we seem to have an understanding of what you are looking for, it sounds like a good way to get hurt/raped/or even worse. Fooling around with someone other than your spouse requires good communication on limits. Walking up to a stranger and making out and letting them finger you..... Well good luck and I wish you safety.
     
  3. Donald

    Donald Devil's advocate Registered Member

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    hmmmm,, I,ve met you a few times , and you never came across as an idiot , or low life. You were always fun to hang around with , and I always new what you were saying or implying ,, not like some people .
     
  4. Jamie

    Jamie Mayor of Temptation Registered Member

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    Just to let you know that my wife and are not "full on partner swappers" but enjoy the tease atmosphere of TTR.

    But as you say, different strokes for different folks. Just don't think that the mindset of those going to the bars in Cancun will lend itself to what you are looking for. If you get guys bold enough to come up to you and begin to play, they will also figure if you don't say no, you are saying yes and yes to more than you think you are. Trust me in the fact that I saw one example where a girl was dancing sexy with a guy for a couple of hours and then said good night. When he didn't accept that she came and sat by me and this guy wanted to beat the shit out of me because he felt he had been played all night.

    Cancun is know for wild sex parties, at least that's the stories the boys tell when they go home so guys don't come to Cancun bars looking for tease but to get laid.

    You will do what you want, just giving you a glimpse of what I've seen and experienced there.

    Good luck.

    Jamie
     
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    marshe The Original Hottie and Hellraiser Registered Member

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    Wild1s are two awesome ppl. Genuine and Real!!!
    To call them idiots really says something about the OP.
     
  6. wild1s

    wild1s Naughty 'n Nice Registered Member

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    Didn't you used to post on here under the name "Mac Attack?"

    To answer your original question, no, TTR is not the kind of place you are looking for.
     
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    Donald Devil's advocate Registered Member

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    I think when they use words like idiot in side their first 10 posts , a few flags do go up .