Boobs Cruise/Temptation Stay Debrief

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun Resort' started by Don & Jeanne, Jan 17, 2018.

  1. Don & Jeanne

    Don & Jeanne Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Jeanne and I spent ONE day & night at Temptation last week. Friday 1/12.

    We were in Cancun on a trip she won. 1/9-1/13. Very lucky lady.
    The place was a high end golf/family place. Yeah, I know

    I had set up a Boobs Cruise first, then decided to get a room so we could just keep the party going for our last night in town. The price on Hotels.com was $345. Not bad compared to the over $400 I was quoted form the Temptation desk.

    We are up for fun, with fun people but not "lifestyle".

    The Cruise put her off a tiny bit because it had some heavy girl on girl group action that she wasn't mentally prepared for. The Ring Leader was closer to her age, and I think Jeanne felt the challenge was too much to act on (mind you, I've seen her make out with women before). By the end of the Cruise there were people and groups going for it up front. We kept with each other but did not avoid the fun, or run to the back.

    We actually made friends, and got to know a few people.

    My personal observation was that the folks who "went for it with strangers" on the Cruise were maybe more like exhibitionists than folks who wanted to make friends (there were no personal conversations after). Or maybe the (girl on girl) wife's who participated look for activities like this to exercise that side of themselves in a situation where they never have to see the other participants again. Who knows. I tend to overanalyze.

    Later that night at Temptation, we were approached by a Swinger Couple (Late 30's/Early 40's) at the Party who did a nice job telling their story in a nonthreatening way.

    The Wife came right out and asked if we were curious. I said that we we're "checking it out". She responded, "Oh, you guys are just putting your toes in the water". Nice way to put it.

    We enjoyed the Party Entertainment; danced, drank, & socialized till we took it to the room around 1:30am. Window shades open.

    Anyway. After it was all said and done, the Mrs. told me that she just wants to keep it with me, but I know the right people bring out her wild side. I'm not pushing it, but we do like hanging out with Sexy People that push boundaries.

    Life's too short.

    In conclusion, Temptation was a great 24 hours.
    2-3 days would have been better.

    I’d like to plan a stay at Desire Pearl the next time we are in town for a Chill few days with the right crowd.

    Now post your story,
    Don
     
  2. Bryan21178

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    Sounds like you enjoyed your visit and thats all that matters, I always tell my friends that have never been that TTR has something for everyone from totally wild to mild.
     
  3. Don & Jeanne

    Don & Jeanne Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Agreed. Most of my old friends, and friends at home might not be into it.
    I have friends that we've met at Naked Hot Springs that surely would.
    It's nice to have a firewall between types friends. I notice folks use handles instead of their real names.
    Covers that. :p
     
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    Jen&Kyle I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Overanalyze? Hell yes. Just enjoy the fact that girl A is enjoying girl B who is enjoying girl A while girl C is thinking damn I got to get in on this with girl A and girl B but maybe girl D will join me so we can mix up the alphabet a couple times and all be bad girls together.

    Glad you had a good time. Sometimes you just can’t explain this stuff. It just happens once the barriers of life are gone and that is a wonderful thing about TTR and the boobs cruise.
     
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    Good report. Our first trip we went with open minds, made a conscious effort to talk to as many people as we would, be nice and non-judgmental of anyone or anything we say, and just take it all in. We saw things that we found to be a turn-off. We saw people having a great time, and enjoying themselves in whatever manner they enjoyed. Yes, some of them went over and above what we thought was appropriate, BUT we didn't judge. In the end, we learned things about ourselves, and realized we were TTR addicts and would likely be returning every year at least once. Barriers were broken down, our lives were enlightened, and we made a TON of new friends.

    We party with EVERYONE. Singles, couples, LS folks, and vanilla alike. ALL were fun. They key will all these different types and how to ensure you make friends, is to accept everyone for what they are. TTR can become a fantasy world for some people. The mundane day to day life of work, kids, etc can suck the "FUN" out of adults. For some people TTR is an opportunity to be something and someone they don't get to be the rest of the year. Get crazy, do wild things, stretch their comfort level. I say, good for them. People of all shapes, sizes, races, sexuality, etc, all having an absolute blast!

    And the cruise sounds right up this girls alley! Hope the week we're there in April sees a repeat performance!!! HA
     
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  6. Don & Jeanne

    Don & Jeanne Enthusiast Registered Member

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    As an Engineer, I appreciate the A, B, C, D descriptions. Keeps things organized... :)
     
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    Don & Jeanne Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Yes, Yes, and Yes to all. Here's to the the repeat performance.
    Tip (not what you think), I hear from the Cruise Vets that a Chino led trip is the craziest. Somehow he gets people to do things no one else can...
     
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    Best response by far LOLOLOLOL!
     
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    Don & Jeanne Enthusiast Registered Member

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    How the heck did I forget to mention the couple that did the squirting demo! So much going on at once.
    Please post your debriefing people...
     
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    Witnessed one of those as well on our first cruise. lol
     
  11. Steve

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    Guys, please don't get too graphic on this. What happens on the boobs cruise stays on the boobs cruise.
     
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    FakeNewsTeam I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Great info....thanks so much.
    First BC 4/9!
    We are not L.A./Swingers but like you enjoy a good time and accept everyone and everything.
    Wife a bit worried...which worries me in how I have fun but NOT get in trouble!
    Quite the dilemma.
     
  13. Don & Jeanne

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    So my wifey is down for anything with me (even in public) but not into sharing right now.
    She made that clear. Otherwise she's the life of the party. The people we're with make all the difference in the world, so more experiences make for more opportunity.

    If I could change one thing, it would be doing the Cruise a day or so after getting there. It might be too much of a shock to the system the first day - first time. Ease into it.

    The only LS couple that approached us was way mellow and did a lot of talking about their thing and what they've experienced at the different Resorts. Good info without any pressure. She even said, "so you guys are dipping your toes in the water...". A cute way of putting it.

    Enjoy yourself's FNT, make sure you guys communicate about boundaries and limits before the bell boys take your luggage out of the van.
    It's always the right thing to let HER start or stop anything. This way you're off the hook if things get uncomfortable. Let the lady lead the activity, and make sure you keep track of her engaging or disengaging. You'll need to backup her choice if she wants to back out at any time. Remember who you're flying home with. It could be a ride full of smiles and fun looks, or a looooong flight.

    I'm not sure where all this is going for us, but I like being in the environment and experiencing new things.

    Even thinking of planning a Desire RM trip next year. From what I read it's more couples focused and a smaller crowd. There is a "Play Room" where observation is not a problem because it's all couples. There's also a top floor Jacuzzi area thats full tilt.

    (Paul and Rayanne: dang, what if we want it back after? Negotiation required...)
     
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    Thanks for your view and advice.
    Do not misunderstand my comment.
    We know TTR and how to hang as this will be our 4th trip with 5th trip already booked for Nov 18.
    We also understand each other and boundaries.
    We also have LS friends that we gave hung out with...no issues and no concerns on what folks do.
    My comment was related to virgin BC for 4/9.
    We arrive 4/7 to ease in and meet folks before the BC...already in action.
    Wife is NOT by any means a wallflower but is not necessarily into public sex real close up.
    So wife worried about shenanigans on BC and Chinos... she does not want to have to jump off and swim for shore!
    We just will go with the flow when we BC.
     
  15. wild1s

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    Really? Dang, I didn't know we were supposed to leave it there. I always brought it back to TTR with me. Sorry!
     
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    Including brain cells, and political aspirations. But hey it’s all worth it
     
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    There is no need to worry. No means No!!! and Chinos is harmless. Chinos knows how to edge people on, sometimes that is to just help people get over that edge and push their own limits IF THEY WANT. By no means will anyone be made to do anything with anyone else if they don't want to. Each cruise is different. However all are a blast and well worth it. Steve and his crew keep an excellent eye on things and makes sure all have a great time. And if some is uncomfortable, just let a staff member know and they can assist to where one would be more comfortable.
     
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    Not for us! You've been on a Boobs Cruise, you've got our vote!