We (married couple upper 30s) are planning to visit Temptations October 2-5. We will be in Cancun longer, but this is something totally new to us. We've talked about it sounding fun several times, and finally decided to do it for a few days the first time and go from there. Probably going to regret not staying longer, but oh well. Hopefully we can make many more trips! Anyway, we have a couple of questions. And I'm sure I'll have more later as we get closer. But I do want to say from the outset that I really appreciate the people on this board who provide a lot of valuable info. Your insight led us to book a massage already for when we will be there! The first question is specific to t he resort and the theme nights. How do those start out in terms of dress? Like do people show up in very provocative clothing to begin the night? Or do they come a little more fully clothed and then start wearing a little less as the evening goes on? We will be there for a lingerie night, for example. So we are just wondering if we come down in virtually nothing, or if we have a little cover and then as the party gets started take that off to be more revealing. We'd like to hear how that works practically. The second question is more related to the "lifestyle." This is something we've talked about before, and interests us, but we've never participated. We do not feel comfortable joining any near our home due to the somewhat public nature of our jobs. I don't know what, if anything, we will do at Temptation. We've discussed possibilities, but we are kind of leaving it open to see where things go and just agreed to communicate about it in real time. We have a wonderful relationship and we communicate well with one another, so we don't think that will be a problem. Again, though, practically speaking, how are people there with "newbies" or people who are curious? I'm sure some of that is a case by case basis. But any pro tips navigating that scene would be appreciated. Again, thank you all for your kindness in providing valuable info on this board. We look forward to our visit.