Don't Be a Fun-Hater.

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  1. Stacia_and_John

    Stacia_and_John T&A Tour Guide Registered Member

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    This semi tongue-in-cheek thread is only partly serious, but it IS partly... so keep that in mind. Post your most easily memorable Temptation experience with a Fun-Hater, and everyone can comment and/or post their own.

    I'll go first, with my own most recent experience with a fellow CCC fun-hatin' member of some reknown who will not be named, but will surely know himself once this is read. Keep in mind, this isn't hatin'... this is only partly so....

    OK, my favorite theme night is Men's White Dress Shirt & Heels Night. Nearly everyone who knows anything about me personally or reads my threads knows that, right? Stacia is a smasher in the white dress shirt and her stiletto ass-jackers and I dig it, one button done... or not. Personally, I prefer post-Midnight when the button is long since forgotten and the shirt is barley hanging on around her shoulders... but... that's just me I think.

    Anyway, this past trip it's March 1, and we're down at the Quiet Pool/Bikini Bar just starting up the night's festivities, and Stacia & Diane are there awaiting our 3rd young lady and her dude. Girls looking great (to me, I get it, even Stacia isn't all into the "look" until she gets her shot Game Face on and the button undone).

    I will diverge for a moment. Which impression of a person is the one that sticks with people the most on average? Hmm? Is it the last one? or, is it one of the middle ones?

    Shoot no! It's the 1st Impression, right? That's why we have those sayings. "Need to make a good 1st Impression." "1st Impressions are the most important." "It's hard to get over a bad 1st Impression." All that, right?

    Well, if that's the case, why would these be the very first, literally the very first five words you'd say to me?

    "I don't like that look." As you stand and stare at Stacia & Diane in their shirts and nothing at all else (unless you count spike heels.)? Gee, are you totally just trying to get a fight started? No, not literally, just figuratively.

    Anyway, I just put him down as a Fun-Hater and went on. Found out later from the girls that they busted him staring at them all night long... while they continued to wear the look that he didn't care for. Ha!

    So, the moral of the story is kids, don't be a Fun-Hater. It's bad for the digestion, complexion, suspension and many other "ions" you can think of. Just have Fun, and do your best to enjoy other people's having Fun, too.

    There literally is not enough for everyone, so take yours where you can get it.

    Post away! Oh, and Post-Hating is allowed by the way.
     
  2. jimnloli

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    I was taking pictures of Lori and the new friends she had made over the last few days. Showing off for the camera, sitting on each other like riding cowboy, suntan oil slippery fun, licking and kissing and all sorts of silly debauchery, when this couple walks by and she says "its uncool to take pictures at the sexy pool, dude" and she gives me this bitch look over her shoulder as they walk by, and her pasty husband, too scared to look me in the eye.

    And I remember thinking

    Of saying something as they walked by but can't remember what.

    Maybe it was fun haters.
     
  3. ScubaSteve

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    I hate when you get looks at the reservation restaurants cause you are still kind of drunk.

    I understand that people do different things on vacation, and some might be totally sober at dinner. But I am not, and that shouldn’t mean I can’t go places! Most days I go pretty hard in the sexy pool/top part of the pool bar all day, shower, get dressed nice, and I like to go to dinner where I order and I am served. The buffet and the causal places for me are good for breakfast and lunch, and then I like a later dinner to relax and take my time, before the madness begins again.

    Now I don't think you should go to the restaurants completely trashed, but I am defiantly still feeling the effects of my day. I know the tables are pretty close to one another, and there have been several occasions where we are just 2 people trying to enjoy our meal and still have a bit of fun. My wife and I have been sat next to other tables of couples that just sit there in silence, hardly talk to one another, and just look over and worry about us. Now I don't know if they are in a fight with themselves and not having fun, they just got to the resort, just haven't been drinking all day, or maybe they are people that never really go out to eat and are trying to pretend they are being more proper then they actually are. I KNOW I am not over stepping my bounds, I have very good restaurant etiquette, I grew up in the business. I would know if we were too drunk to be there (then it’s buffet time), but some people just seem like they are having no fun at dinner. Like are you really only sitting here just to say you ate at the sit down. Why don't you relax and enjoy yourselves. The tables are pretty small, and sometimes there are lots of plates on them, my wife knocked her water glass over one time, and I thought the table next to us was going to have a heart attack. The staff didn’t care AT ALL! That is normally a pretty good tell If you are being too stupid, if the staff doesn’t seem to like what you are doing, then you should stop. But if they are having fun with you, and encouraging a good time, then other patrons should either join in or mind their own business. Don’t be jealous.

    I have never gone to dinner with a group, so hopefully on this next trip we will go out with more people than just my wife and myself, and this way we won’t look so out of place. Like I don't understand who half of the people in the restaurant are sometimes. I just think I never see any of these people during the day.
     
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    Last year I wore a little satin number after a good few hours having second thoughts in the room as to whether or not i should wear it, as a bigger girl, who is somewhat a tom boy for the most part, for me to wear somthing like this would ONLY happen in the bedroom or at TTR. Walking towards patio we bumped into friends we'd made a few days earlier who paid us nothing but compliments, but when we were in the corridor near patio's, at the entrance to the buffet, a guy walked up to me and told me i was gonna 'make him throw his food up' as what i was wearing, he thought i shouldnt of been. Morgan told him politly to F**k Off! Sure knocked my confidence, so much so i was going back to the room to change into something 'more appropriate' however Morgan reassured me, as did the friends we'd made that he was just an a$$hole who didnt have a girl to look at hence was venting some frustration in all the wrong ways. Sad really as 90% of the people ar TTR have made me feel nothing but beautiful, shame that 10% really are the 'fun haters' who certainly DO NOT live up the the classic TTR quote....'Nobody knows you and nobody gives sh!t!'
     
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  5. Lexi

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    The hubs and I went to the seafood restaurant and were tipsy.....the table beside us was not impressed and clearly were not having the amount of fun we were. The hubs even leaned over and apologized for being a bit louder than normal....the man look at my husband with a straight face and said "thank you for apologizing" and then turned his back to us. LOL

    It was a bit distracting for our good time....but the waiter brought us shots so that made it all better.

    We'll make sure to have dinner with you and Elyse while there and make it a dinner to remember. ;)
     
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    Ohhhhhh.......this REALLY ticks me off that you had to deal with some jerk who clearly has no class whatsoever!!!

    You are beautiful and good for Morgan telling him to F**k off! Good for you, staying in your chosen outfit, I'm sure you looked amazing!!! :aktion033:
     
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    That's exactly what I am talking about. It isn't my fault the tables are so on top of one another. I am not going to sit in silence, just because other people are. Some of the 4 top tables, or when they put several tables together, look like they are in better spots in the restaurant and wouldn't be as intrusive as the 2 tops that are 6 inches from one another.

    Yea I figure we will have better luck this tip making group reservations. Yea if we all stick together, then there can't people right next to us getting mad.
     
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    I don't judge on Vacation god knows i look hammered the whole time I'm there
     
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    don't apologize for having a great time, I think it is pretty clear that this is a wild resort and If you want quiet and reserved there are much better places for that, If you want wild, loud,sexy fun well that is a no-brainer. Never apologize for letting loose and getting wild, we all work way to hard all year and we deserve to "tare it up"once in a while.
     
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    I am so sorry to read about what this guys said and more so that it made you feel uncomfortable. Glad you stayed on key and the original outfit and had support that you deserved-BRAVO !!!!! Ang.:aktion069:
     
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    Wow! what an asshole!!! What gives anyone the right to say such mean things to someone! I have had an eyebrow raised a few times by people also. piss on them! Im not scoring what they wear or do, don't bother trying to please the haters! they are usually the ones who don't even like themselves. when you go dress how you please, enjoy your vacation!
     
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    I understand what you guys are saying, we love to have a few drinks as much as the next person. That being said we really look forward to going to the specialty dinners for a romantic intimate experience as our lifestyle at home doesn't allow that. We have been in the restaurants where there we people across the restaurant drunk and obnoxious. Why not go to the buffet? This is within reason of course, like I said, we like to drink and have fun too. Just a different opinion:p
     
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    What an asshole....good for you for sticking to your outfit. I'm a plus size gal and I wear stuff that I'm sure people think "OMG she should not be wearing that!" I don't give a shit about them and that I'm not a coat hanger. TTR is my chance to feel sexy in my own way that I don't get to do back home. And I KNOW it drives my honey wild. To me that's what it's about:sunny:
     
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    I may be drunk, but I defiantly am not being obnoxious (I guess that is a matter of opinion between the drunk and sober person). It is a bit hard to be romantic no matter what, with how close the tables are. I just don't want to sit there whispering and blowing kisses.

    I dont want to see people out of hand. but on a 1-10 scale, I feel like a 7 is ok. If people are expecting you to sit there and be at level 3, that sucks. This isn't dinner at my great grandma’s house. Respect is key, but if you sitting there being super corny, then that sucks for me.
     
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    No, definitely NOT dinner at Grandmas! lol You are 100% right, RESPECT is the key.
     
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    I am always amazed when I walk through Paty O's on the way to dinner with a sexy dress on, you know the one that plunges down the front and barely covers the ass cheeks and I get these glares (not stares) from men and women. I mean really we are at TTR last time I checked, sexy is the game. But don't worry, I'll be in something different with converse tennis shoes on dancing it up come 10 is!
     
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    Yes you will!
     
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    Turn the tables on the haters. We had a couple move our things from our loungers which had an umbrella,to one's which didnt. We made it clear to them that we would be dropping things all day. As I was a big guy wearing a thong,that image must have been too much for them! They quickly left! Thongs aren't just swimwear, but motivational tools as well.
     
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    the man who made that remark is for sure a punk.
     
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    For sure we remember the tennis shoes ......:sunny::sunny: