I don't know why people think of TTR as a non-stop frat-style party. It can seem that way if you only stay at the Sexy Pool swim-up bar all day every day, but generally it's laid back, and the party vibe ebbs and swells throughout the day. it's easy to take a break if that's what you want. If you just want to volume down a bit, go down to the beach. If you really want to chill, go to the Quiet Pool. If you want to just watch people have goofy fun, stay at the Sexy Pool, just stay a bit farther out of the maelstrom of the Swim Up bar. Simple. Distance from the center increases the "chill" keep that in mind. No need to be full tilt boogie balls out upside down shots all day long.