Ladies, how to have the perfect body for your trip to TTR

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  1. tflexxin

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    CLICK BAIT!!!!
    Nope, I don't really have a plan for you.....

    But, I do have great tips for all the ladies wanting a perfect body for the trip.
    Nope, it's not diet
    Nope, it's not working out.

    Go to the mirror. Look at yourself. Say "Damn I'm sexy" Then say it again, only 5x louder. "DAMN I"M SEXY"

    Then, commit that to memory. The say it to yourself every day, every night.

    TTR is for everyone, all shapes and sizes. I'm a guy who has worked out his whole life, and I'm willing to bet I've heard at least as many negative comments about what i look like as someone who carries some extra lbs around.
    There is NOTHING sexier than a woman so struts her stuff and has has self confidence. Attitude sells. Your walk, your talk, it says to others DAMN I'M SEXY and guess what, people will believe you and see it.

    Walk tall, be confident, and know that if anyone judges you, it's THEM who lose out on meeting a cool person and having the opportunity to make a new friend.
    We've met some of the coolest people at TTR over the years, and always look forward to meeting more.

    Just a little rant and advice, from someone who many years ago was a shy tall skinny kid, who found his voice and confidence. Sharing is caring....

    Now, LET'S PARTY IN APRIL!!!!!
     
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  2. lochnavar

    lochnavar Regular Registered Member

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    Couldn't have said it better myself!!!!
     
  3. summerbum

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    This is such awesome advice, but can I add one tip? Tell someone else (maybe someone who looks like they really need to hear it?) "Damn, you're sexy," and you'll be amazed how much sexier YOU become!
     
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    So true! We have both changes sizes multiple times through the last 8 years based on eating habits, seasonal activities, stress etc and we haven’t had a bad trip yet in 10+ trips.


    Tip: I (girl) always do something that makes me feel sexy ontge trip like get sa manicure right before leaving or new highlights......or shoes. I can always feel sexier based on my footwear.
     
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  5. DennisandErica

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    I absolutely love this thread!!!!! Confidence and sincerity go along way! Hold your head high people and be proud of the person you are!!!;)
     
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    Also awesome advice!!!
     
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    myself I think to have the perfect body has a lot to do with being with the perfect soulmate who sees you exactly the way you wish you looked. My hubby who is probably a great liar makes me feel perfect. Love all the comments above!
     
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  8. wild1s

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    I completely agree! I am very critical of every little flaw on my body, but every day, Sam tells me that I am his fantasy woman, and fantasies are always perfect! I cannot even begin to tell you how much confidence that gives me! Every time a hot guy talks to me, I can hear Sam saying, "You're the hottest bitch in this place!" (Robin Thicke) He says it so much that he actually has me believing it! (...but in a humble way. ;))
     
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  9. G&G

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    You have no idea how many times I've read this thread as our first trip to Temptation gets closer (Feb 28 - March 6) And, yes, the men in our lives either make or break us. I'm extremely lucky to have one who "makes" me. We're lucky ladies for sure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    I love this!
     
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    Eat well and drink lots of water. Find a physical activity you enjoy and make it part of your weekly routine. The rest will take care of itself!:)
     
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    Do you think it's ok that my favorite physical activity is daily instead of weekly?
     
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    Yah of course! I try and workout 4/5 times a week :)
     
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    Great pep talk! Thanks.

    Upcoming trip will be #11. Stressed, not sleeping well, and feeling pudgy...both of us. He always rocks the confidence...and I will, too! It’s not because he does not tell me. I am my own worst critic. Done with it!!
     
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    good advice!!
     
  16. Sexykarma2017

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    (From the “she” of SexyK2017)

    Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!

    I was about to virtually kick your ass until I realized I was being hosed.

    TTR IS ABOUT ACCEPTANCE! Not everyone is a size 6 or better (I’m not), not everyone has stretch mark free skin ( I don’t ), not everyone has perky 21 year old boobs or a thigh gap (Baaahaahaahaa...get real. )

    And that’s ok!! If you got it, flaunt it!! If you don’t got it but are proud of what you have and want to show it off, go for it. If you aren’t there yet, that’s ok too. (We will get you there!!)

    Nobody knows you at TTR and nobody gives a shit, but you need to live for the moment and not give a rats ass what anyone else thinks. True beauty is in the mind of the model, not the eyes of the beholder.

    And if I see any body shaming in my vicinity at the sexy pool, asses will be kicked.

    Ms SexyK.
     
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    Nicely said!!
     
  18. Jess_2703

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    I hate exercise .. It's not fun at all..
    I mainly only drink water but will need to train my liver for alcohol cause right now 2-3 glasses on the rock and this lady is drunk
    I struggle MANY years with my fat. Having polytheistic ovaries syndrome make you takes your fat all at the same place and easy as hell and I HATE it.
    But I learned to live with it and I don't care what others think no more. If someone refuse to talk to me because of my body, well you clearly got the wrong resort and I truly wish not to talk to you.
    They don't like what they see they can f*** off and look somewhere else.

    I'm on a low carbs ( Keto ) diet right now cause none of my bikini fit me and I refuse to buy more.
    I lost nearly 22pounds as of this morning ( Holidays been hard and gain 3 pounds )
    But, if I can get another 5-10 pounds off until mid march I'll be super happy. :D
    Anyways 92 days left before the fucking snow being replace by white sand ! :D
     
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    wild1s, wonder what is you favorite activity. Let me guess: jogging ? weight lifting ? swimming ? No, none of those seem to fit. Must be something else, just as beneficial to physical fitness :) Is it yoga ?
     
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    The wife and I are doing the Keto diet too. I'm down about 22 lbs in 7 weeks not a fun diet but not as difficult as I thought. We are there March 25 to 31 looks like we will miss you Jess...