My husband and I love Temptation and we love Desire, but we are not swingers. We love the flirty, naughty vibe of both Cancun resorts, but we are very happily monogamous. We live a vanilla life at home and while that can be fine, we can also get restless. Unfortunately, we can't afford to go to Mexico as much as we'd like. I had read that there were lifestyle clubs in cities like Toronto and New Orleans and I was surprised to learn that there were a few in my hometown. At first, we thought, "Eureka! Just what we were looking for" but after a while, I thought about it some more. The beauty of Temptation is "No one knows you, no one gives a sh!t" - but would that kind of philosophy be possible in a club in your own zip code? You might find someone you know, right? Also, what are these clubs like, in general? I'm hoping they're more like dance clubs, with rooms for playtime on the side. Usually I look for reviews for everything (resorts, restaurants, electronics, etc) but I wouldn't know how to find reviews for a lifestyle club. Can anyone help?