Hello everybody! We are in Canada and are wondering what are some good sites that we can meet like minded people like us, the type of people that would go to desires or TTR and not be scared. Not aff and sdc seems very limited, maybe because we are in Edmonton and not many locals use it. Any suggestions of quality sites is appreciated. We are not hard core lifestyle, soft'ish' I guess would be the term to describe us. Looking to expand our circle with other couples that are like us, just not sure what sites would be good for us ecspecially if you have to pay. Considering cafe desires but would like to hear personal recommendations. Message us if you don't want it posted here for discression reasons. Thanks!!