Newbie Questions

Discussion in 'Desire Riviera Maya' started by JayNW, Feb 8, 2017.

  1. JayNW

    JayNW Newbie Registered Member

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    Hello everyone! We are new to this site and to the clothing optional/ lifestyle friendly resorts. Well we have been to one before but we are not counting because it was such a bad experience for many reasons and we are hoping that Desire Pearl may be a better fit for us from the last one. We are undecided as to when we will go but it will be sometime this year. The Mrs. would like to go in sept. for my birthday but we will see.

    We are looking for a more upscale, classy resort than our last place with no pressure to par-take in anything unless we choose to do so. We are open minded and sexually adventurous but go at our own pace. We have had a few experiences but never have or will play to full swap, that's just us. Plus every situation is different and we weight them all differently. Like most people, except of our last time where it was a bed post notch fest, there has to be that something between us and we click.

    So my question for everyone is, do you think we will fit in with the crowd at Pearl and do you think it will meet our requirements?

    Thanks!
     
  2. Al and Kim

    Al and Kim Regular Registered Member

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    It sounds like you will fit in just fine. No pressure to do anything. Like you said, your own pace. Have fun and don't worry
     
  3. KimandTina

    KimandTina Newbie Registered Member

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    Pearl will be just what you are looking for! We are going to try to go back in September this year!
     
  4. Jen&Kyle

    Jen&Kyle I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Totally agree that based on the description of your interests Pearl will be a good fit! More of a sexy sensual place than a raunchy pressure place.
     
  5. JayNW

    JayNW Newbie Registered Member

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    Thank you to everyone who has responded, it sounds like it will be more to our speed.
     
  6. BnK

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    Hi,

    October is great weather while September can still be pretty humid. We go mid April & October and in October weather is consistently hot, not too humid, and only the rare rain shower rolling through. April is often quite perfect.

    Happy travels.