Hello everyone! We are new to this site and to the clothing optional/ lifestyle friendly resorts. Well we have been to one before but we are not counting because it was such a bad experience for many reasons and we are hoping that Desire Pearl may be a better fit for us from the last one. We are undecided as to when we will go but it will be sometime this year. The Mrs. would like to go in sept. for my birthday but we will see. We are looking for a more upscale, classy resort than our last place with no pressure to par-take in anything unless we choose to do so. We are open minded and sexually adventurous but go at our own pace. We have had a few experiences but never have or will play to full swap, that's just us. Plus every situation is different and we weight them all differently. Like most people, except of our last time where it was a bed post notch fest, there has to be that something between us and we click. So my question for everyone is, do you think we will fit in with the crowd at Pearl and do you think it will meet our requirements? Thanks!