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Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun Resort' started by gfile, Jan 8, 2018.

  1. DannKathy

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    I never thought my wife would do the boobs cruise, but we've now been on 2 of them and just had a blast. It's a party that other parties should be judged by. I've seen a few brief oral sex situations mostly from games and of course women kissing and definitely enjoying whipped cream off of breasts, but where the idea came up it's a floating orgy is beyond me and I'm sure that has kept some people from trying it which is really a shame. Kathy wants to go on both cruises while we're there this time, I don't know if I have the energy for that!
     
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    Jack, as far as seasickness goes, I am a person who gets motion sickness riding in the back of cars, on helicopters, small planes, and even on a cruise ship ha ha how lame am I (though in my own defence, the waters were pretty rough that night!) Strangely, I don't get at all queasy on the Boobs Cruises, and I don't take any meds beforehand. I don't understand it, but I'm happy that's the case! Maybe I'm too busy having fun to be sick.

    You could try some Sea Bands together with Gravol or Dramamine. They are an acupressure treatment for motion sickness. I used them for morning sickness when I was pregnant. Sea Band homepage | Sea-Band
     
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    How many helicopters and small planes have you ridden in?
     
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    LOL..Actually, several times for each! I was dating a guy who had a penchant for doing air tours wherever we went for holidays. I never saw anything, as I had to look straight out the windshield instead of down to avoid losing my cookies. I guess you could say the guy made me sick, so he's history ;)
     
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    you guys sound a lot like most swingers before they first started thinking about swinging. :cool::cool:
    but you have nothing to fear at TTR. most people at TTR are not swingers and even most of those who are will not make a move unless they get the impression you are also swingers. Even then most of us are like everyone else and too shy to make an overt first move anyway....and even if they do it's not a big deal. just tell them you're not swingers and take way an ego boost out of it. (it'll give you something to talk about back in the room...in bed)
    but bottom line, Swingers are normal people who are just more open to fun options and open minded. 99% of us not like you see in the movies or Playboy channel....we're just fun people who share well. :D:D:D
     
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  6. Jen&Kyle

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    I have to say this post really made me smile as I reminisce on our first visit. I came in with a very similar mentality. Excited to go. Very nervous. Wife starting by saying she needed an adult escape. Then eventually saying she may go topless. Then when talking about limits sharing she may be interested in girls in the right fun / non stress / safe scenario with no promises no expectations. Went in really just expecting a fun party and some awesome husband/wife time. People on here and eventually in person at TTR once we arrived saying ‘you are just like us when we started. You will be lifestyle. We can tell you are going to love this world.’ Me thinking ha we are just in that 1/3rd of people there for the party. No chance. Will be happy to simply drink, make friends, enjoy wife going topless (and others) and just forget about the societal controls / restrictions / stresses that we are trying to escape. Well we happily found all of that ... fun times drinking with new friends that remain friends 7 years later, wife comfortably topless a couple hours into the trip and throughout and enjoying immensely the escape from societal controls and stresses that we so very much needed a break from. We too were very vanilla at home. Have many judgmental friends, well maybe judgmental is the wrong word, but you get the idea, who like to fit into societal molds. Us wanting to break out of those molds but not sure how to do so safely without the judgement and complications that come with it. So that first trip was eye opening, seeing there are many others out there like us with open minds, wanting to live life to the fullest, just good fun people. The diversity of it all is so welcoming too. The motto of nobody knows you and nobody gives a ___ really does apply. So in that environment you open up, break down those barriers and well what happens happens if it is fun and feels right then who cares right? Spend a little time with those great people and bam oh wow the ladies are dancing together...touches here, touches there...where did jens top go? Ha. The ladies sure embraced lingerie night and are getting ‘close’ on that dance floor :) Before you know it we (we = us and a couple we met that was on their honeymoon, in that 1/3rd there for the party grouping) were going back to our plush jacuzzi to have a drink and enjoy the jacuzzi. Who wears clothes in a jacuzzi in a place as freeing as TTR? Not many. Things happen. Ladies kiss. Limits get explored in a great open communication we are all on the same page having fun sort of way and boom bam pow you cross over into that 1/3rd swayers category. Didn’t think that would happen but wow probably one of the best nights of your life. Still vanilla at home but not sweating the small stuff anymore, different mindset on life. Return to TTR whenever you can to live life, enjoy the next adventure. It is addicting. Sometimes it remains about the party. Sometimes more. Each time is different. Each time amazing in its own way. Excited for the many newbies on here lately to make their own adventures. Wish we could join you as wow that avatar is hot lol. Be sure to share a trip report of your experience when you return. :) Aplogies for the ramble...great memories.
     
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    You always have the best replies/stories. I read your entire Trip Report and loved it. Hearing your story makes me unbelievably excited to go. At first I was worried that my wife was not going to like it at all once we were there. She likes to drink and have fun and even entered (and won) a wet t-shirt contest on spring break when we were in college (years ago). My point is that there is a wild girl down in there even though she is "a mom now". She has already told me that she is not going topless and that is totally fine. We'll see what happens when we are there. It's my hope that she just lets loose and has a great time on our brief escape from the real world. If anything else happens - great but not expected. But I think that going into our trip my mindset is just like yours was back then.
     
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    What are the odds ?? I mean for betting . . . . That she’ll take her top off.

    I’m afraid it won’t be worth betting against the top coming off. Unless we bet on which hour !!
     
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    I took the gf last trip (which was her first) and she was apprehensive before going. By day two she was having a grand time and the chi-chi's were getting full sunshine for the first time in her life. A day or two later she was whooping it up on the Boobs Cruise and shucking it all to go skinny dipping. When you get to TTR and walk around the pool, see all the smiling faces, acknowledge all the friendly people wanting a fun vacation just like you, and realizing that not only perfect people enjoy the place, inhibitions fly and the real vacation begins. The very LAST thing you want to do at TTR is fret about what people will think. Got a flaw? EVERYBODY has them. Think you're out of place? Almost EVERYBODY might think that walking in. Whatever your reluctance or worry, it quickly goes away if you settle in and enjoy your vacation with the greatest fellow party people on the planet! :marshe:
     
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    Or you can do it the traditional way, by stumbling into one of the fun holes fresh off your first Boobs cruise only to find yourself on the receiving end of the affections of a red headed Irish lass who managed to find her way off the boat and into the same end of the pool. Boom, bam, pow! Nobody broke a tooth or drowned, and the only thing lost was what remained of your dignity.
     
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    Ha, thanks for the kind words. I wish I could share the 2 stories I have from TTR where we looked at each other and said did we just make the jump out of the 1/3rd swayer group?... defining moments where you run home want to share with your buddies and realize, oops, can't do that but if i tell those stories on here I might get me a yellow card :( So good and unique we almost had t-shirts made lol
     
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    What is swayer?
     
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    You can always private message me...;);)
     
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    I have seen conflicting definitions but here is what we mean when we use the term 'swayers'

    Not vanilla, not swingers or 'lifestyle'. In between. People who go to TTR curious about doing more than just partying. May be a kiss with someone other than your significant other or more. Curious about this world and if it happens it happens, mostly centered around the party but open to possibilities while on vacation if the right scenario within the appropriate limits presents itself.
     
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    What red head was that????
     
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    Perfect description of a swayer....
     
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    Sorry Claire! Guess it must have been your sister! lol
     
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    Stupid question but my wife wants to know if they serve any drinks in coconuts or pineapples lol
     
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    They did a BBQ by the pool once and had drinks served in pineapples, and they may be available, but we haven't seen it often. Then again, many take a bubba mug just for the convenience so it may be few ask for a drink served like that.