I'm a decent-looking, nice guy, 50s, and I will be going in early March. I am not going there to hook up with anyone or to be creepy in any way. When I am there I will make an extra effort to be by myself and to keep to myself. Sure, I would love to find a woman to do dinner and drinks with, but I'm realistic enough to know that I have a better chance of finding a bag containing a million pesos on the beach. My concern is that I will stick out like a sore thumb. I am hoping to not be noticed. Any suggestions? Thanks.