Single Straight Guy's Perspective of Temptation - Day Pass

Discussion in 'Temptation Resort Cancun' started by Deleted Account, Dec 8, 2017.

  1. Deleted Account

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    Temptation doesn't advertise itself as a swingers resort and they say they're not, but with some of the activity that goes on, it definitely comes off as one. Despite this, I can't agree that 'anything goes', is how it rolls.

    I found out about this resort pretty late and by that time, rooms were sold out for the days I could make it. Since I wanted to experience the resort, I settled for a day pass, which normally costs $250 (almost as much as a night's stay), but after listening to the membership presentation, it was half off.

    The main draws: hot girls, tits, and possible sex. Sounds like a single guy's dream, but the odds are against you. However with decent game and some luck, it's not impossible to score. Even though I have picked up girls off the street and events before, I wouldn't say my game is top notch. Anyways, I think the best thing to do is curb your expectations if you decide to come here, because if you're look to get laid and don't, you will be sorely disappointed. I suppose touching some breasts, dancing, talking to, and staring at topless women isn't the worst consolation prize, but that's still short of your goals! (if you're into American football, I'd say it's like settling for a field goal because you didn't get the touchdown). Although this place is very sexually charged, that doesn't mean you can walk up to someone you like and say 'hey wanna go back to my/your room?' without building rapport.

    The majority of the patrons are couples in their 30s to 50s. Swingers couples are known to be here, but you will also meet a good amount of couples who won't play. No couples were willing to let me in on the wife, but I was approached by a few singles I wasnt into. So back to what I meant by needing luck, if you're single and want to get in on someone's wife, you'd have to find a couple where the guy likes watching his wife getting banged by someone else. Most married men want something in return from a guy, in the form of another girl to play with, if he's going to let his wife go off with another dude.

    Even though I didn't get lucky, I still had fun and if I was able to stay for at least another day, my chances might have been greater. I might've been a little awkward too since this was my first time in such an environment. There's easier ways and places to get laid so I wouldn't bet the farm here. The pass isn't worth $250 in my opinion, but with the presentation, the cost pretty much becomes similar to an average excursion. If you are single and have a free day in Cancun, this isn't a bad place to hang out for a day.

    I wouldnt be too surprised if you thought about or want to come back after experiencing a day pass. If I'm still single next time vacation rolls around, I might try to stay a few days. But if I'm not, I probably won't be back. Hope this helps, feel free to ask any questions!
     
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  2. Stacia_and_John

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    RE the above, anyone else caused to remember the long list of threads complaining about single guys at Temptation or is it just me?
     
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  3. vacationfun2

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    Well John, he was only asking wives if they wanted to get laid (lol). WTH dude, move on to some other trolling as you appear to like that.
     
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  4. Latina Y Gringo

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    Wow. I thought you were a straight shooter from your earlier/recent/new posts.

    My 2 cents:

    You were looking to score, no field goals !! With theoretically my wife or another of my new or old friends wives. But when you aren’t “single” anymore you “probably won’t be back”. Even though you said you had fun.

    You probably shouldn’t come back, you might like a place I’ve heard of outside Reno though.

    Luckily for them (not you) those singles “you weren’t into” didn’t waste more of their time on you.

    Am I wrong here ??
     
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    Sounds like someone that doesnt know the first thing about swingers or the ls,
     
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  6. Dave and Amy

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    Nope, not wrong at all......let's hope he finds a partner before next vacation. My husband is still laughing at this.
     
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    "Although this place is very sexually charged, that doesn't mean you can walk up to someone you like and say 'hey wanna go back to my/your room?' without building rapport."

    Really? Exactly where does THAT line work? (Ok, so yes, I used it once, but where does it work for guys?) I would guess the strike out rate would be very high.
     
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    I do like the straightforward honesty about in the post and his intentions. Maybe a little crass, but it was informative. Single guys need to have an "A" game.
     
  9. Stacia_and_John

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    Right. Single guys need game, I vaguely remember having one.

    Now, us married, hooked-up guys just have to have charm, sense of humor, panache, suave, perhaps some cash, and some good bedroom mojo.

    Huh. Maybe......

    Nah.
     
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    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    “Perhaps” some cash ????

    See below the YouTube link for both men and women.
    (Possibly the funniest video I’ve ever seen)

    Crazy Hot Scale

     
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    I mean he was honest right? Maybe the word choice was a little too direct. But can’t jump on him for being honest and not having a good understanding coming in of how things work and the ls. It can be a learning process.
     
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    This is satire, right???

    I mean clearly Linsanity717 is the Borat of Temptation.
    [​IMG]
     
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    Well... yes I suppose it was an honest post by him. As the lady of this "couple" I honestly feel the expectations was a little delusional. Maybe a brothel would have been a better $250 for him to try out? I give him credit for having the balls to post it, enjoy the ride from the members on their take of your view of the resort. We all have our own take on the world.
    I however I'm not looking for any sort of a cocky little shit thinking because I'm at the resort I'm part of the buffet.
    :)
     
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    Having been several times as a single guy (was different when I came as a couple)...this is definitely not the typical TTR approved single guy. Appreciate the honestly of the impression he had...but not at all reality. I won't knock him for striking out honestly...and would prefer that to some guys I've met trying other ways. Still disappoints me that adults can't understand there's more to life than "the next orgasm"...but that is the case.

    And if I'm making a solid NFL fantasy reference...good luck single dude looking for a touchdown...I'll "settle" for quality any day versus garbage time touchdowns.

    In the mean time...much love!
     
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  15. Nikki&Ira

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    I wonder if he had gotten laid....would he have found it to be worth the $250?

    Nikki
     
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    Well Nikki, had it been me, hell yes it would have been worth $250! :p
     
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    1 of 2 words apply........trolling or delusional
     
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    I keep having this image of a dude rolling up to the resort in his Trans Am, Members Only jacket and mirrored aviator sunglasses. Tipping the valet a quarter, and as he walks by every married female in the resort says "everyone's a winner baby"
     
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    Doooooouche!
     

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    I wonder where he heard about the place. One of the new articles that came out for the re-opening? Sounds like he was expecting a resort wide orgy. He was able to hook up from what he said, he was just too picky.

    I bet if he had just gone to have fun, party and meet new people his experience would have been way different and had better chances/opportunities. People point out creepers and if you were bouncing couple to couple asking to take the wife back to the room, that creeper was you.

    FYI swingers typically play together not separately.