Hi! I'm a 31 year old guy who's decided to escape the NYC cold and take a 3 day weekend to Cancun in mid April. Most of what I want to do is get a few massages, drink some cocktails, and read some books. I'm a bit of a foodie too, but it sounds like I won't be too in love with the food any place. I would probably also enjoy some socializing and night time partying, although I can't imagine myself staying up until 6am. Perhaps unusually, I'm a solo married traveler (my wife recently took her own solo trip to Italy). As a consequence, while I'm in a non-monogamous relationship and might not turn down an interesting woman, hooking up isn't a big concern for me or the reason I'm visiting. I've never been to Cancun and so am having a hard time figuring out where I might enjoy, although I've narrowed it down to all inclusives: Grand Oasis -- nice resort with a nice beach. Has some of the party atmosphere of Oasis, but a much nicer hotel and probably has opportunities for quiet. Temptation -- moderately nice resort, but not a luxury resort. Nice people who probably would be willing to socialize and not be weirded out by my status as a solo married traveller. Unclear to me if good for just relaxing. (may not have room availability any more at the time I would go) Le Blanc -- one of the nicest hotels. Probably great for relaxing and massages. Would probably feel pretty out of place. Club Med Cancun -- seems like another moderately nice resort. Can't decide if the encouraged socialization and activities are too cheesy feeling for me. Seems like it would be accepting of a guy visiting by himself. I've read a bit on these forums, but can't make up my mind very well on this. I'd love to hear your thoughts on what might be a good fit!