Solo single man welcome ?

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  1. Max

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    Hello everyone,

    I have read a lot on the forum but could not find an answer or some threads are 10 years old. I am a 32 old man from Quebec Canada (french) looking for a good place to relax and forget my stressful life. I am single and would like a place to meet new people, have fun, play games and of course meet single ladies around my age to talk and flirt. I am not necessarly looking into sex, it's just fun sometimes to flirt. I know how to behave and I am respectful. I didn't go on any vacation for 4 years and never went solo/single. I don't want to go to a place with plenty of 18 years old getting completly drunk.

    I have read that there is a lot of couples and some singles but mostly are men. Is it true ? Can I have a good time and meet people ? Is it possible to find single ladies to talk and flirt a bit ? Is end of march or beginning of april a good time to go there ?

    Thanks a lot for your answers. It is really appreciated.
     
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    This is my first time going to Temptations, but from my understanding, and based on some of the posts I’ve read, there should be single girls there that either tag along with couples or go as a group. How that helps!
     
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    I've gone single twice in the last 4 months and had a great time both times. I am generally more of a people watcher then a socializer. Being at TTR everyone is so friendly I find it's easier for me to break out of that mode and meet new people. Once you decide on a week read through these forums. Find groups going the same week and start interacting with them ahead of time. Find out what the themes are for Bash and participate. Once you get there be friendly and introduce yourself and treat all the people with respect. Only you can determine what kind of vacation you will have. Go in with a positive attitude and you will have an awesome time.
     
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    I'm a temptations vet and say if you are rolling solo then def make sure you dress for the theme nights. Will make you more approachable and fun. Be very respectful of couples and don't push for anything. I suggest you steer clear of wives at first until the other half introduces you. Very few single women go there so any woman you see. Assume there is always a guy with them.

    Best way. Plan on just drinking and being social. If you get the rep as trying to move in on a wife it will get arOund quick

    Treat yourself as someone who has shown up to a potluck dinner and not brought anything. So you have to make up for it In other ways.
     
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    Come mid June and say hi. Trust us you will have a good time. Say hi to everyone who looks at you but wait for them to say hi back before moving forward. If you are there when we are we would love to party with you then ...
    Andra and Rob
     
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    There are about a zillions posts almost the same as yours, but the recipe for success as a single is easy.
    Tip #1. Don't be a creeper. Sitting in the pool by yourself "watching" people is creepy, and will quickly ensure you meet few friends
    Tip #2. Don't be a creeper. Trying to get involved with every sexy couples game, when you're alone, or hitting on peoples wives when the male side is not around.
    Tip #3. Don't be a creeper. Say hello, introduce yourself, simple make friends. TTR welcomes everyone, and your attitude will set the tone for your trip. Be a "fun" guy, bring shots, and if you've got the gift of gab and can make people laugh, you're in like Flynn and I'm sure there will be single (and possible some married) ladies who fancy you!

    Did I mention, Don't be a creeper? LOL
     
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    LOL! :D
     
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    Thanks a lot everyone for the answers here or in private. I didn't want to duplicate a thread, I am sorry. In fact I just wanted to find a place that's it's easy for a solo traveler to find friends, play games, talk and laugh. Im not a creeper and know how to be fun and be respectful. I just came out of 15 years relationship.I will just change my approach and don't go there to find single woman but just to have fun with people, meet new people and maybe create friendships.
    I will do everything to blend in. I will try to be active on the forum to know people better before going.

    I meet my travel agent today and will decide the dates.

    Thanks again. People look so much fun and friendly. Can't wait.
     
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    Hope you have a great time, Max. One of my best friends is a single guy I met with his cousin at TTR on my first trip back in 2011.
     
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    I'm very much in your situation Max. Actually disturbingly so!

    - From Montreal.
    - Newly Single.
    - Just out of a 12 year relationship.
    - Just wanna have fun.
    - Travelling from April 1 to 8 to TTR.

    I've already laughed 5-6 times just reading through people's posts here, and I'm sitting in an office, freezing temps outside, and I'm sober!

    I'm guessing after a shot or two, sitting by a pool in tropical sunlight, these people are going to be amazing.

    Trouves toi des billets pour le 1 au 8. On prendra un verre ou deux ensemble, on pleurera nos vielles relations et on trinquera aux nouvelles!
     
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    hahaha same for me. Sounds like a good plan. Je te tiens au courant.
     
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    TTR is a great place for a single guy with the right attitude! Go meet awesome people, have some fun, no expectations and you'll have the time of your life!
     
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    You do this, you won't have any problem meeting women and you'll have a great time. Welcome to the TTR family!
     
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    I finally booked in April 3-10.