Trip Report - Single Guy

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun Resort Reviews' started by Boston Bill, Mar 7, 2011.

  1. tomkatxxx

    tomkatxxx Newbie Registered Member

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    great info thanks for this
     
  2. brazil_couple

    brazil_couple Enthusiast Registered Member

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    great trip report from a single point of view!
     
  3. Britcock

    Britcock Newbie Registered Member

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    Many thanks for the report
     
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    We'll be there tomorrow (the 24th) anyone else? After the Angles and Devils and PJ parties let's party later in my room.
    See you
    Lalo (LolliPop)
     
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    Where is this singles thread? I’m going to be traveling alone (Dec 28th to Jan 2nd), I want to get the most out of it.
     
  6. despacito

    despacito Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Do not come to TTR for Christmas!!!!

    Good morning!

    The resort is currently at low census (60% I was told but I think is more like 20%!). No one single really with a unicorn rare exception unwilling to mingle, and couples unwilling to dance. Few women danced and their male partners were not approving of another guy dancing with them.

    I arrived yesterday afternoon. Males>>>Females in sexy pool.

    The night entertainment was great but I am a dancer not a chair hugger or a bartender companion. So I had to do mindfulness to enjoy the torture...

    I will not come back here without a date.

    I am going to do lots of gym, kayak, swim, etc. to burn off the 3,000 cal I ate last night...:)
     
  7. Hebs

    Hebs Enthusiast Registered Member

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    OUCH!! That is exactly what I am afraid of. Hopefully NYE will be better than Christmas. I fly in tomorrow, single (recently separated) male traveling alone.

    If worst comes to worst I will end up exercising and making progress on my PhD.
     
  8. despacito

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    There is a pattern: If you have a date, go for Christmas and buy your reservations less than 7 days. You will save lots of money.

    It was full of mostly Canadians and Russians with the rest being Americans. I think you are more likely to have a higher census for NYE.

    The sexy girls who work for the resort cannot have any sort of preferential or personal interaction with you or they are fired on the spot.

    I just went 22-25 and there was no BC scheduled.

    I did see two gorgeous couples who fully swapped with each other and a russian couple who let a russian girl play with them...

    This is definitely not for a single guy hoping to meet one of many single girls and party. And if a single lady goes, she WILL get mauled.

    I suggest you play it cool, go to the sexy pool AND visit the quiet pool too. The gym, the food, the Bash parties, the Spa, are all good. There is beach volleyball: no one except 2 other guys and I played.

    Find a Canadian employee named Zach, tall thin with long ponytail. He is new and honest. He can tell you who the singles are. Tell him “the guy who played volleyball with him this last weekend referred you to him.”

    Do not mix with the wild guys and the wolves. I kept it cool and true to who I am, and was the only man who got to dance with the most beautiful unicorn there during my stay.

    Even if you get lucky once and manage to talk to one, my advice is to become a challenge for the lady after she meets you. If you go after her like glue, she will run from you. Even after you do one dance!

    I met this beautiful lady on the 23 at Bash briefly. On Christmas eve, SHE spotted me, waved me hello at a distance, and smiled. I went over to say Merry Christmas and she greeted me with a kiss out of the blue! So I asked her to dance, she said “you first by yourself,” and I got her to promise me she would if I did (I was not about to become her clown). After I danced on the platform with a larger employee group, the DJ played Despacito by Luis Fonsi!!!! So I literally danced from the platform down to her chair acting out the lyrics and back with her. The entire place had their eyes on us because she would not dance with anyone!!! It was the hottest Despacito routine we could do together.

    I made friends there. For instance, go to Sea Flirt to eat at night and ask for Fernando to be your waiter. You have not met an awesome waiter until you meet him. Also, go to Rain for dinner, and have Manuel at the sushi bar make you a custom sushi.

    Obviously, it is hard to predict what happens to anyone with the random events ocurring. But if you just want sex, I am sure you will find a very overtly promiscuous woman there who does not care about your PhD studies but only the chemistry class...

    If it is dead, take the bus to Cancun disco strip, but it won’t be dead. Try to keep things superficial. I do not think people go there to find a soulmate, right? Go to have a good time without expectations, be spontaneous, and be nice. Then let things happen...it usually takes a couple of days...
     
  9. Hebs

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    Wow, thanks for the detailed and helpful tips.

    I just barely got in.

    Doing the BC tomorrow, hopefully from there, once I know a few more people it will be easier.
     
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    Let me know how the BC goes for you!
     
  11. Bryan Carroll

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    Any new updates to the Singles thread?
     
  12. Jeremi Hart

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    Going March 8th 2018 with 3 other buddies for the weekend. Celebrating my best friends last weekend as a single man so I guess you can say bachelor party. I'm the best man in the wedding so I was trying to go all out for him. Saw the Temptation website and instantly thought this would be the place to be. Now, upon doing research, reading reviews, and finding these forums I have discovered that I have made a big big mistake. In no way did the website say that this was a couples only resort but that is basically the vibe I'm getting. As far as swinging where I'm from it's a normal thing so no biggie. I was just expecting a adult only judgement free party and not a if im not with my wife I'm frowned upon party. Somebody please help! Any advice or truth to this? I am going to try to switch to another resort. Any suggestions? Also if I can't switch how can I make the best of this situation.
     
  13. icecube88

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    Going as single guy ( Your Self ) you can have a Great time! But to bring a group of single guys can be a RED flag to everyone. I only say this because in the past there has been many problems with groups of guys! Basically they showed NO RESPECT for the ladies at the resort. That's the Number ONE rule at TTR for a single guy alone or in a group! RESPECT! Yes. the resort is mostly couples. But there are some single ladies also! But also have to remember this is not a hook up place or strip club. It's a place to relax & party! All are Welcomed! :D:D:D And the Boob Cruise will be a No go for a group of guys... I'm sorry if I killed your vibe but I was just being up front with you. :):)
     
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  14. Bryan21178

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    Very honest trip report!!! I glad you had a good time. I have told some of my single friends that TTR is always a blast but much better if you travel with someone.
     
  15. Josiane Girouard

    Josiane Girouard Newbie Registered Member

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    Too bad you were not there april12-18
     
  16. PAULnPAT

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    Good reports but TTR is really not for singles, I give you credit for trying. :)
     
  17. donnny

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    People are very protective of their group of friends and some single guys can get pushy and are watched pretty closely.
     
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    Hi..
    Now I have come there as a single guy, from Denmark 4 times. And yes, I would like to tell you that it could be nice if you could see who was single. Because I think there are more and more couples coming, and that's also delicious as everyone is very friendly. But we think there are many who would also like to have more single women. But think that the high prices have something to have said there.

    Sorry for my bad writing language.
     
  19. Josiane Girouard

    Josiane Girouard Newbie Registered Member

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    I know i have been there before
     
  20. Claudio

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    That's a great idea! I'm going solo in a couple of weeks. I'll follow your advice.