Wanting to try Desire... Concerns though

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  1. BrentandJanin

    BrentandJanin Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Recently hit up TTR. Our friends suggested it and we went with them and had an absolute blast. We are now texting back and forth about trying Desire. However we have our concerns. We as individual couples are not lifestylers, though open, but prob not gonna get involved our first trip there.

    We are curious about how that's taken.

    Also, are there fun nights like at TTR?

    I see there are theme nights but is it an actual fun time? Is it an outdoor bar like patty O's?

    We are just trying to justify to our women, who are fun as hell, that it's worth it. But we want them, as well as ourselves, to be comfy and have the fun type of trip we all enjoy!

    Sell me!!!
     
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    Zero pressure to do anything you don't want to do. Lifestyle or not. Same for being naked or not. That's optional. No one will give you a hard time. As for the theme nights, they do have them but they usually happen in the club which is inside and not open air like Paty O's. The vibe in general is more laid back compared to the party atmosphere at TTR.

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    Don't worry about the whole LS thing, not everyone who goes is into it. We love going and are in the LS, but have met many, many wonderful people both at TTR & the Desires who ae not into it and have had a ton of fun hanging out with them while on vacation.

    In terms of themes the participation is random at times at the Desires. However, having the club be indoors is so much nicer than outdoors. We usually lose 5 lbs at TTR just due to the amount of sweat that flows from us at Paty'O.

    Usually the club kicks off around 10 or so and will go sometimes until about 1 or 2 when most people wander off to the hot tubs for the after party. I think the hot tub bar sets to close around 3, but if there are still people out there they tend to stay until everyone is gone, at least in our experience.

    The freedom you have at Desire to not have to worry about security breathing down your neck and also there are no single guys (which is awesome, unless you are looking for a third although those are usually easy to come by lol). My husband and I love being naked and adore that we can do that at Desire w/o security getting up in an uproar.

    So there you have it, my little book about Desire.

    Melissa
     
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    It's fun. You should go. No more LS intrusiveness than at TTR, though there is more public displays, but You get to do more public displaying your very own self.
     
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    IMHO, the overall crowd (on average) was hotter/sexier at Desire than TTR.
     
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    Awesome. Thanks! Appreciate it. We definitely aren't shy and are open but want to feel as comfortable as we were at TTR. Granted we also loved the party atmosphere at TTR. We love dancing and dressing up/getting into themes. It was a huge part of the fun
     
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    Alguem do brasil ?

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  8. scootmick

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    Piling on to the Desire question.... my understanding is that there are two resorts. What is the difference? ... If any?? Thanks!
     
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    Desire Riviera Maya & Desire Pearl are the two Desire resorts.

    DRM is... I think 114 total rooms, but they are going to build five 3-person villas for folks who have the interesting 3rd party to bring along (ain't us). I think there are 5, maybe 6 levels of room quality, from standard garden view (i.e. basic mexico hotel room) up to the Passion Suites (bad-assery of hotel quality with plunge pool, multi-room suite, your own Jacuzzi pool and ocean front) awesomeness, each step-up with corresponding price-point per night increase.

    DRM has the "advertised as 40-person Jacuzzi spa/hot tub, but it can actually handle more than that with folks standing up, moving around, standing at the bar, etc. The disco is enclosed, with GREAT A/C (!!!), theme nights change regularly and the participation on certain nights is well-nigh 100%, an on others is nearly absent. I think it's based on how "weird" and how hard to get ready for, the weirder and difficult, the less participation. In other words, Disco Night or Naughty Schoolgirl Night, or Sex Doctors & Dirty Nurses Nights are each slamming, almost everyone dressed up, but if you hit a (just like with TTR) something too exotic, such as King Tut Night (which could be interesting but in Mexico it ends not being so) ends up lame-O.

    Desire Pearl is smaller than DRM, with just 88 rooms. I've never been, but I got the big pitch this last time, as when you member-up at DRM you are also a member over at Pearl. Pearl apparently has a penthouse, complete with private 12-person hottub (ala DRM but smaller), private DJ if you want to host a party, humongous space and big old ocean front balcony, and the room quality only goes down 2 steps from there. Heated pool at one end, too.... problem is that I've heard that it ends up shutting down and folks end up in bed around 10:30 p.m., but that's only what I've heard.

    DRM , average time we went to bed last time was ~3:30 a.m.
     
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    Wow! GREAT info! Thank you for the post! Seems DRM a better fit for us. It's all about the peeps after all!! Cheers!
     
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    .... problem is that I've heard that it ends up shutting down and folks end up in bed around 10:30 p.m., but that's only what I've heard.

    The above is totally false. We have been 3 times ,Pearl and DRM, and I have never seen this at Pearl. Entertainment starts at 9:30 in the lobby. Moves to the disco at 10:00, then dancing as long as you want. Everyone usually moves to the much larger than DRM hot tub. Bar there stays open until 3 am or later. As with any stay, it depends on the crowd that is there. The party is very similar to DRM. Rooms at Pearl are MUCH nicer. Smaller resort.
     
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    We are going to DRM for our first time in October, so we will post a review after. We have been to TTR once, and made the choice to try DRM based on Jen and Kyle's amazing trip reports, as well as the excitement of trying something new. If you are thinking about trying it, that means you probably should!
     
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    Uh oh :) Hope you love it! We return to Desire Pearl in less than 5 days!!!
     
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    Hi! We just made our first ever trip to Desire RM. We spent 3 nights there. It was just awesome. (I will post a trip report/review soon, hopefully).

    There is zero pressure to remove any clothing. That said, once you notice everyone else topless and often bottomless, you probably won't mind taking it all off, too. (It took me 3 trips to Temptation before I finally took my top off. It took me 20 minutes at Desire to take it all off)

    There is an outdoor dance/club area right outside the lobby. It's a little bit like PatyO's (has a bar) but not nearly as crowded. The 3 nights we were there, there was either a live band or a DJ so there was good music and some dancing. At about 11pm, everyone leaves that outdoor area and goes up to the disco. It's air-conditioned, which is fantastic. There's a bar up there, a dance floor and lots of seating. Also a very spacious and clean restroom! The disco is super fun, often with contests or catwalks, similar to Tempation.

    As the night goes along, some stay at the disco, some head to the jacuzzi and some go to the "sin room" aka "play room" The jacuzzi area has beds, couches and lots of fresh towels. There is actual sex going on, but you do not have to engage if you do not want to. (We didn't)

    Desire is a great time; we had a blast.

    Good luck!