Recently hit up TTR. Our friends suggested it and we went with them and had an absolute blast. We are now texting back and forth about trying Desire. However we have our concerns. We as individual couples are not lifestylers, though open, but prob not gonna get involved our first trip there. We are curious about how that's taken. Also, are there fun nights like at TTR? I see there are theme nights but is it an actual fun time? Is it an outdoor bar like patty O's? We are just trying to justify to our women, who are fun as hell, that it's worth it. But we want them, as well as ourselves, to be comfy and have the fun type of trip we all enjoy! Sell me!!!