What am I? Is there a name for it?

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  1. Yahaira

    Yahaira Enthusiast Registered Member

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    We will be in Temptation for our 3 time... it has become our home away from home. We Always meet fun people and create amazing memories. Just wondering if there is a name or sign for my lifestyle. Please help!...

    I know they’re many swingers and open minded friends at TTR that have color bands or name for their lifestyle.
    I’m married but I also like to have fun with only ladies such as One on One with them, but yet I’m not a full swinger (if that’s what it’s called) where you switch partners.
    So I’m a Half Swinger? Is there a band color?
     
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    I'd call this, in a respectful friendly way: husband pleaser or dream realiser! Or even "yes please!" ;)
     
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    Thank You Totally makes sense ... is there a way to who is a Husband Pleaser/ dream realiser?
     
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    Jen&Kyle I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    I need more info to properly assess.

    Disclaimer: Labels are just labels and these days the lines tend to blur. Too often people make assumptions based on a far to general label.

    So now on to the fun part. Answer these questions please...

    Do you only do this on vacation?
    Is your husband there?
    If applicable, is the other guy there?
    If so, do they both only watch? Or more? Ie same room.
    Do you and your husband talk about doing more in the right situation?

    And now the most important questions that we all must know to properly label :cool: ...
    When you are with the lady do you give and receive?
    Which do you prefer?
    PM pictures and videos for evidence :rolleyes:
     
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    We can't see much of you in your picture but what we see looks very pretty. So from what we've seen over there, if you just mingle and get in the hot tub at the end of the afternoon, you'll surely hit it off with a lady or two. Seems the ladies really do enjoy soft lips around that time...and who knows where it may lead! ;)
     
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    Please copy us the PM!! :D
     
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    That’s easy...you’re a Unicorn. Your a Super Unicorn if you let your husband join. And your a Super Duper Unicorn if you do it on the patio. :marshe:
     
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    Answers: I do it wherever lol
    My husband is there watching first and if he has been a good boy he can later join
    The other guy is there just to watch, he can later join but just with his partener not I.
    It’s more of The Girl with myself and the partners watching. I like to give and receive when I’m with a lady.
    Hubby and I always talk about this to be on the same page. We like to have fun but always want to be respectful.
     
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    C7599AC1-B7C1-4EDA-86A7-CC1387F5B99C.jpeg This is me on our last trip to Temptation before Dinner...
     
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    So your just into girl play leave it at that and not worry about a label,,,

    Ps sexy pic
     
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    Well, if I must label, based on above and the videos you sent, so hot ;), then I am sorry (or not sorry at all?) to say I think you are a swinger. I know, I know. It may be hard to believe but I think you have already embraced this. Of course there are labels within that label and you would be girl/girl and same room. Not soft or full. End result though is forget about the labels and have fun and well clearly you are having fun :) party on.
     
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    Perfect advice from Miss Tease.
    Labels schmabels... the world has enough, and no need to create more.
    Enjoy the play and the special friendships we make along the way
     
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    Thank a You everyone for the Advice, will definitely continue to have fun, and not worry about the labels. Just wondered if their was a sign that identified my lifestyle.
    Everyone enjoy your day and always remember to have some sexy fun!!
     
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    I have wondered the same thing about myself and if there was an easy label to share instead of explaining it all
     
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    Label: Soft swap, girl on girl only. That's us too
     
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    Lol us too......it’s about us enjoying together
     
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    swinging in the lady pool....................
     
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    You basically described my wife totally except that I am always there participating. Like everyone stated, never mind all those labels. You just like to have fun. That's it.
     
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