What am I? Is there a name for it?

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun Resort' started by Yahaira, Mar 10, 2018.

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  1. V1ckieSparks

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    Hi Yahaira!! that is exactly the kind of thing we are in to . They told us in October that was called soft swapping. I dont know how much truth there was to this I was not looking for a label just a good time!
     
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    Glad I’m not the only one who wonders...
     
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    We love to have fun and make new friends, just wondered if their was a sign that made it easier instead of explaining my lifestyle at times lol some swingers are open minded to only half swing their girl with us not minding to just watch, or for my hubby to participate but sometimes it’s difficult for some so that’s when I thought if their was a code or color band?
     
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    Yes a code or symbol would be great!!!!!:):marshe:
     
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    Yahaira Enthusiast Registered Member

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    I go to Temptation to relax, have fun and make new friends not with the intention of something happening if it does great if it doesn’t my point was to have fun, but I just wondered since it’s happen and left me wondering lol
     
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    Totally agree, we should make one
     
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    My wife is the same, she talks about never done it and she interested seeing other pople..., so what are we? Lol
     
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    Voyeurs
     
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    My wife and I have that same exact question. My wife thinks/Or has that same fantasy exactly like yours, that's awesome.
     
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    My wife and I as well haven't done it, hopefully soon. We looking for a good time..
     
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    We are exactly the same!


    32 DAYS!!!!!!
     
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    A dream!
     
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    Watch for open doors, they usually are hoping you will come in and watch
     
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    I'm taking your advice very seriously, lol..that would be awesome.
     
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    This was our first time. Kinda showed us what we are okey with as of right now. Deff something we want to pursue further :);):)
     
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    Awesome, I'm sure it was a good experience. My wife and I talk about so hopefully someday day we can experience something similar.
     
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    I feel the same way...open to this but for me I have never done this before..I wonder the same thing...would be nice to know who else is looking for this..so not to make it awkward.
     
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    Seems like girl/girl fun at TTR is more common than at Desire, in our experience, and that may be the true spirit of people tempting themselves in Cancun at TTR to try something more than vanilla. It's kind of a safe exploration type and it shouldn't really make a hubby jealous so maybe that's why its a starting point or play type for some lifestyle couples. Then again who doesn't like to squeeze boobs?

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    here's a group that goes to Hedo called the "playful pussycats" organized through wild women vacations for April trips so that could be a good nickname.
     
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    We just go to have fun and enjoy ourselves. We don't worry about labels. What we are interested in one night might not be the same the next. So just have fun and enjoy yourself and don't worry about putting a label on it.
     
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    In my experience(home and on vacation) this isn't always the easiest situation to work out.

    The wife likes other girls, I obviously like my wife...and other girls, we would all need to be together, she isn't interested in other dudes, I would feel bad if another dude watched me get it on with his gf/wife (but isn't getting anything the other direction), watching just the 2 girls is basically torture, and having same room was slightly awkward.

    So basically finding a single "unicorn" lady is ideal. Not always the easiest at TTR (and we don't really spend much time looking for one or trying to go out of our way to find something). Just looking to have a fun party and hope to win the TTR lotto :)
     
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