SIngle Guy Awkward?

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by DenverGuy, Feb 7, 2018.

  1. DenverGuy

    DenverGuy Enthusiast Registered Member

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    I'm a decent-looking, nice guy, 50s, and I will be going in early March. I am not going there to hook up with anyone or to be creepy in any way. When I am there I will make an extra effort to be by myself and to keep to myself.

    Sure, I would love to find a woman to do dinner and drinks with, but I'm realistic enough to know that I have a better chance of finding a bag containing a million pesos on the beach. :)

    My concern is that I will stick out like a sore thumb. I am hoping to not be noticed.

    Any suggestions?

    Thanks.
     
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    Just be respectful of others. Most everyone there are very friendly. Just start talking to people and you should be accepted and make many friends in no time.
     
  3. Bryan21178

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    Good luck!!!! Mostly couples is what we have seen. But if you respectful and easy going you will have a good time. There are singles that go and have a blast.
     
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    Captain Blue Eyes I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    One of the most amazing things about TTR is that people go there to meet people. Be friendly, respectful and open and you'll meet both great couples and singles. Trip no 15 for me coming up in April and most of them have been as a single. Participate in the theme nights, read lots on here and chime in on the threads that pertain to your travel dates and you'll have some friends before you even hit the resort.

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  5. DenverGuy

    DenverGuy Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Thanks, everyone. I appreciate it.
     
  6. Latina Y Gringo

    Latina Y Gringo Regular Registered Member

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    Wear camouflage. :p
     
  7. Captain Blue Eyes

    Captain Blue Eyes I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Just a note.....if you really don't want to be noticed....you can do that.....but if you want the best vacation of your life.......it's best to participate and meet some wonderful people.

    Throwing up a picture is a good start too.
     
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    MikeandHeather Regular Registered Member

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    If you are there when we are one of us usually hits a wall before the other so this couple becomes a single at various times each day!
     
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    the only time we have ever seen a single guy have an issue is when they act like idiots .. or don't talk to anyone and just creep in a corner
    so as long as you are nice and polite you should have no issues meeting people and having fun
     
  10. DenverGuy

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    Thanks - not concerned at all with issues, only concerned with problems and awkwardness, and avoiding them.